M obs

[Secret98]

I was at his apartment again.

We were sitting in his living room again, and I was right next to him. He looked at me and smiled (I figured he was probably going to sneeze, and he was ) He sneezed a double into his fist, " He-eh-hoo, HE-eh-HOO!" Very desperate sounding at the end of his last sneeze He looked at me and smiled, I as already smilng, because I can't help but smile when he sneezes. He went to the kitchen and still got me and him some water. He sat back down and gave me a glass of water. He got the pre-sneeze look on his fce so I turned away because I always have a hard time watching someone sneeze, he sneezed into his fist again, "HE-eh-HOOO, HE-Eh-shoo!" Then he smiled at me again. We talked again, it went something like this:

him: still to shy to talk about your fetish?

coyotesara21: Yeah

him: alright, then.

coyotesara21: Um... you make a cute face before you sneeze (I said that trying to get over this fear, thanks to your guys' help )

him: really?

coyotesara21: yeah

him: Ok, so this face (he tried to make a pre-sneeze face, which was very cute and it looked like he had to sneeze again, which he didn't)

coyotesara21: Yup. That one...

him: You smiled when I made this face

coyotesara21: Well I said I liked that face, so I smiled...(???)

him: My allergies have been acting up (he said that and smiled)

coyotesara21: ....

him: I have to sneeze... (then he sniffed alittle bit)... HE-EH-CHOO, HE-EH-CHOO, EH-CHOOO! (he sneezed 3 very loud sneezes into his fist). Did you like (he got the pre-sneeze face, and his breath started to hitch into his what he was aying) tha-ah-t- AH-Eh-HOOO, HE-EH-SHOO! (very loud and cover with his just hand, I think his sneezes came to fast)

Me at this time was very nervous, and wanted to leave, but I stayed...

him: Is there anything else you like when I sneeze?

coyotesara21: Your loud....

him: K, you ok?

coyotesara21: Yes

him: You sure?

coyotesara21: yeah

him: Alright if you say so, you sure?

coyotesara21: yes, why?

him: your shaking...

coyotesara21: ( I shake because I got turned on, not from fear, I shake if I'm scared to, but only during an anxiety attack, which I wasn't having one. I learned that the reason I shake is because I get turned on, I just learned that in my human sexuality class. I always wondered why I shaked) Umm....

him: Did I scare you?

coyotesara21: No, I um...

him: sure?

coyotesara21: positive, I have to go...

him: why? Are you sure I didn't scare you?

coyotesara21: You didn't scare me... I just remembered that I have to give my dog her pills, tonight because my mom is at work...bye

him: bye

What do I do? He wasn't scaring me... I was just turned on. I'm sure some of yous shake to, right? Depending on how strong your fetish is... but what do I tell him?? I wan't scared, I was turned on, but how do I tell him that??? He probably think's I was scared, which I was, but that wasn't why I was shaking... and if I tell him I was scared he probably won't sneeze in front of me again.... Please some advice..

[Guest Love and Truth]

I don't have all too much experience with that stuff, but if I were you, I would tell him how hot he was or something lol

[SweetP]

this was just AMAZINGLY hot, this guys sneezes r hot, and the conversation was cute too! if i were you, i'd marry the guy! lol, jk. Really though, i think i said this b4, but i think you should really try and come out of your shell a little bit about the fetish, just explain things to him when he asks questions, which you have done some of, but still...i'm kinda lousy with giving advice, sorry dear!

SweetP

[count tiszula]

You're doing so well; hell's bells, if I had a gorgeous person sneezing all over the place like that I would certainly be shaking! Every time it's geting better.

Now, don't say "I'm really turned on now and my panties are exploding with lust".

Say something like" Oh, you're just so cute when you sneeze." and/or " I like it when you sneeze, it's just that I get so nervous". He is not going to make you more so. If you can't say "sneeze", say "when you do that."

By the way, this is a terrific obs and in essence you're so lucky and we're all jealous.

[Green]

I haven't commented until now, but I've been keeping track of your obs. (Sorry I've been lurky!)

Oh, sweetie, he sneezed into his fist -- just like you told him you like! He's listening to what you like (and I'm not just referring to the sneezing; I'm talking about him actually asking you what kind of sneezing you like and actually applying it), and he's willing to indulge in it. And it seems like he's been interested in you even before you told him about the fetish since you guys have been hanging out for a while now.

Are you sure you're not too nervous? Because it's probably not a good idea to do anything you're not completely comfortable doing. (Ack, I didn't want to sound patronizing there, but I failed.)

My advice would be to actually show him how much his sneezing affects you. Tell him why you're shaking. He seems willing to take the steering wheel; if you're willing to let him, then go for it!

By the way, I'm terrible at advice. This is my disclaimer!

Also, count de tisza is right. We're all jealous of you, but we are ever thankful that you give us these wonderful obs!

(By the way, you might want to take note that he might be browsing the forum out of curiosity. His questions before seemed pretty well aimed at a sneeze fetishist's tastes. He's probably in research mode right now -- which can benefit you! )

[Poppy]

I think you've found yourself a caring, and very sweet guy.

My only suggestion (Like before) is to NOT leave when he starts to talk about it.

Its NOTHING to be emberassed about. Heck, If there is shoe fetishes (Personally I think thats a bit silly) then sneezing cant be too bad, can it?

If he is willing to cater to your fetish, then I think you should go for him! Just dont leave, then he will start to stop sneezing and (Possibly) a mental block will occur. Then you dont get those precious sneezes, heh.

~Tubas

[Geist]

Good progress, first of all!

Tough love time, now.

Darling.....STOP LEAVING. You have to stop that. If you keep leaving every time he sneezes, he's going to A.) quit sneezing in front of you B.) get frustrated or C.) give up on you.

I realize this is hard for you, but he cares about you. Explain to him WHY you are uncomfortable and what kind of reactions you have and why. Explain to him that he's one of the only people who knows about this and that makes you nervous. Open up to him. You don't have to lustfully jump his bones (although I would ), but at least let him know you appreciate what he's doing and explain why you react that way. Trust me, he WANTS to hear that you are affected in a positive way!

~Aku

[Triosk1]

I'm basically agreeing with what everyone else has put here. I can empathise, because I get nervous when people sneeze around me, and if someone like your guy started doing it, and I actually plucked up the courage to tell him (serious Kudos to you for doing that, I don't know if I'd have managed it), I'd be in the same situation. But it is what people are saying, a task of getting hold of your fear and getting past it a little at a time. I think you're doing fantastically, personally, and being really amazing about it, but it's bound to be hard for him to get his head round why you're so shy about it and why you shake.

So my advice would be to try and open up when he brings the subject up (but possibly not when he's actually been sneezing, coz that's bound to be a more tense situation). Just tell him that you do like his sneezing, and that you're not scared, just shy of talking about it because you haven't told anyone before (or not many, I don't know if you have). And whatever you share with him, I'll bet that he'll be a lot more flattered by it all than you expect: i mean, any guy's gonna like the idea that a girl likes him when he does something he doesn't even put any effort into! And he's shown he doesn't think it's weird or strange, because he's indulging it and curious about it. I think you're totally on to a winner!

Good luck, and thanks for the obs.

[Guest Leonard Fairbanks]

Wow! This is one of the best obs, seriously. It sounds like he's a sneeze fetishist himself, actually. I know everyone has been saying to break out of your shell, but if you absolutely can't do it with words, maybe you could write it down on a piece of paper and have him read it. Still nerve wracking, but takes a lot less worry about literally "telling" him.

And yes, I envy you.

[Secret98]

(By the way, you might want to take note that he might be browsing the forum out of curiosity. His questions before seemed pretty well aimed at a sneeze fetishist's tastes. He's probably in research mode right now -- which can benefit you! )

I hope he wasn't browsing the forum or anything, because my picture in my profile is well..... ME!!! He'd know it was me and know about the fact that I posted his sneezes in here, now that is nerve wracking to me!!!

[Green]

(By the way, you might want to take note that he might be browsing the forum out of curiosity. His questions before seemed pretty well aimed at a sneeze fetishist's tastes. He's probably in research mode right now -- which can benefit you! )

I hope he wasn't browsing the forum or anything, because my picture in my profile is well..... ME!!! He'd know it was me and know about the fact that I posted his sneezes in here, now that is nerve wracking to me!!!

Don't worry. People who aren't established members of the Forum can't view members' profiles (if this has changed, please correct me if I'm wrong). So he can't see your picture. Also, if I'm not mistaken, you've never said his real name. And he can't search for any key words without being a member, either. So I think you're safe.

Worst case scenario? He does find out (which, like I said, is unlikely), but he'll probably think it's hot or cute or some other appealing adjective given his past behavior regarding your fetish.

Don't worry!

[Secret98]

(By the way, you might want to take note that he might be browsing the forum out of curiosity. His questions before seemed pretty well aimed at a sneeze fetishist's tastes. He's probably in research mode right now -- which can benefit you! )

I hope he wasn't browsing the forum or anything, because my picture in my profile is well..... ME!!! He'd know it was me and know about the fact that I posted his sneezes in here, now that is nerve wracking to me!!!

Don't worry. People who aren't established members of the Forum can't view members' profiles (if this has changed, please correct me if I'm wrong). So he can't see your picture. Also, if I'm not mistaken, you've never said his real name. And he can't search for any key words without being a member, either. So I think you're safe.

Worst case scenario? He does find out (which, like I said, is unlikely), but he'll probably think it's hot or cute or some other appealing adjective given his past behavior regarding your fetish.

Don't worry!

stupid me, thanks for telling me that

[shy_obsession]

Aw, I feel so bad for you! All you want to do is enjoy it without him pestering you about it. Like I said before, he sounds really understanding, but if you aren't comfortable talking about it, he should leave the topic alone for a while, until you bring it up. I think maybe the best way to handle this scenario is to explain the fetish with written/typed words. That way you won't have to face him and get so flustered. Or you could talk to him on the phone. Best of luck.

[chui]

awww...sweetie! i know it can be hard to tell someone about exactly how the fetish affects you. i tend to be a bit sappy and girly in instances like this...and honestly, my first thought would be, when youre sitting next to him, and he sneezes and asks if you are scared because you are shaking...to just reach over, and very delicately, touch his arm...nothing sexual or too intimate, but just reach out to him..that will show him youre not scared of him..and if you look him in the eyes, i promise, without words, he will know how its affecting you...you wont have to say anything about being turned on..just that you arent scared...

if he has shown this kind of interest so far, and this type of kindness and understanding, its likely that he will be cool with anything else you tell him. *shrugs* it can be really hard to trust people with this type of thing...and you will know when you are ready to make a move and talk about it. i hope that whatever you decide to do works out for you..and we will always be here to support you no matter what you decide.