Getting your SO to induce

[BananaTree]

Me and my BF are long distance cybers. He lives on the East Coast and I'm in the midwest. We've never met in person. I'm not gonna open up that can of worms so I'll just say that we've been together a year and I've never heard him sneeze...it's driving me nuts! How can I bring up the subject (btw he knows my fetish) and not die? I wanna hear him!

[bloom]

Whether or not I'd bring it up would depend on how he reacted to your fetish. If he reacted in a positive way about your fetish, I'd recommend that you just plunge into it and ask. Chances are he'll oblige, being that it's such an easy thing to do.

If he was hesitant or anything about your fetish, I think you should have a discussion about it in general. The fetish is presumably a big enough part of your sexuality to tell him about it, and I think if you open up a dialogue about it and become more comfortable with it, it won't be so hard to ask him.

*pat pat* I know the feeling, though. I realized what my fetish was about a month after I started dating J and waited until that December to tell him. The entire time I was *desperate* to hear him sneeze, but I didn't get the chance until he induced for me that January! So I'd do it sooner rather than later if possible.

Good luck!!

[streetclub54]

I would definitely just go for it. He will either agree or deny, but as long as he isn't freaked out by it he is hardly going to dump you or anything so the way I see it you have nothing to lose. Tell us what you decide to do. Hope this helps