Sexuality and Preferences

[bloom]

I have noticed that there seems to be a higher concentration of LGBTQ people on this forum, which originally sparked this question.

The main questions I have are thus:

1) What do you consider to be your sexual orientation? Straight, gay, bisexual, asexual, etc.?

2) What gender sneezing do you prefer, if you have a preference?

I am bisexual (although I find some people outside the gender binary sexually attractive I dislike the term pansexual for a number of reasons). I feel like my bisexuality and my sneezing fetish are highly linked, probably because I realized both of them at pretty much the same time (I was fourteen). I prefer women and usually prefer female sneezing, but it’s very fluid. Right now I prefer male sneezing but I feel that there is a dearth of male-sneezing related material out there (what’s out there is good, but there is so much more female stuff out there from what I have seen!) so I always go ‘round back to liking female sneezing more.

So tell me about you!

[Nicole]

Great question! So great, in fact, that we just had a discussion about it not long ago. Check out the thread...lots of good answers!

[Kiwifruit]

1. Straight.

2. Hmm, involved question...in real life, I prefer male - but it has to be the right kind of sneeze, I'm fussier about male sneezing than female I'm more likely to enjoy female sneezes in real life, but enjoy the right kind of male sneezing more, in other words. In stories and obs however, I usually prefer female with a male caretaker

[bloom]

Great question! So great, in fact, that we just had a discussion about it not long ago. cool.gif Check out the thread...lots of good answers!

Of course we did! Is it just me who always has trouble with the search function of every forum I've ever been to!? Sorry about that!

[Nicole]

Of course we did! Is it just me who always has trouble with the search function of every forum I've ever been to!? Sorry about that!

Gosh, don't be sorry!!! I think most of us have done that at one time or another. Hey, it was a good question, so good looking out!

Welcome to the forum, by the way!

[Jorm]

Some questions are good enough to be worth asking more than once

1. Like you I generally list myself as bisexual even though technically pansexual or omnisexual would probably be more accurate. I'm rather more picky in my taste with women than men though.

2. Men, men, men! I'm really not that into female sneezes, but a lot of that is purely because the sneeze sound I like is far more likely to come from a male than a female.

[Chanel_no5]

I'm pretty sure I answered this in the other thread, but I'm too lazy to go and check, so I'll answer this too.

1. Lesbian.

2. Only female.

Simple as that.

[murphy dee]

1. I'm definitely straight, though I do enjoy lesbian porn. Go fig.

2. I only like men's sneezes (and the occasional sneeze from a very masculine woman). I couldn't even tell you why this is, it simply is.

[Skiffy]

1. Bisexual (leaning the lesbian way) but I'm not really out, so I'm contributing to the "higher concentration of LGBTQ people on the forum".

2. Mostly, but not exclusively, women.

I think this thread probably deserves to exist if people want to answer it. It's more simple than the other one, so it is kinda different.

[VoOs]

1. Bisexual, but I'm more easily attracted to women.

2. I prefer male sneezing in fiction, but like both genders in real life.

[Nova]

1. Bisexual (not pan), leaning towards men right now. Probably because I meet them more regularly, going to a school with 90% men.

2. It depends on where and when. I mostly prefer men, especially in fiction, but I like women better in 18+ things generally.

I do tip over from time to time, depending on what my life looks like for the moment. If I happen to fancy a woman or meet more women, I'm all for them, but if I happen to fancy a man or meet more men, I'm more likely to look that way. I remember both having happened more than once. *laugh*

[TheCakeIsAlive]

1. By now pretty much convinced I'm straight, though I can find women attractive, I can't imagine myself at this point in a relationship with one.

2. It changes, used to prefer female but at the moment my preference is most definitely male.

[dragonko]

1. I am gay.

2. I prefer male sneezing.

[Sitruuna]

Lets see...

1) I don't know... I do look at both women and men the "ooh, what a nice looking person!" way, but I don't wish to have sex with them and most often it's nothing like people describe having a crush on someone is or so (if you get what I mean). I don't know if I really like people that way and if I do, it's not the gender. I usually pick the people that I "fancy" by what they do... If they are good at something that I'm interested in I usually tend to like their company and so... I think a woman could turn me on with out any fetishy things included. Maybe.

2) I prefer male. In fiction I find women usually disgusting, though even if I hardly admit it I do sometimes feel like reading some female things as well, but most of the time I just wish to keep away from that stuff. In real life I can find some women's sneezes and stuff nice (like I don't mind one of my teachers sneezing~)... If I don't think about the gender of the sneezer then I at least don't mind the sneezing, but if I think just for one second that oh god that's a woman the turn on becomes a turn off. So yeah, I definitely prefer male.

EDIT.

I forgot: If it's roleplay (I playing the sick one) or I writeing the fiction I don't care which gender it is - then it's I being the sick person, what does it matter at that point... (Especially if I the sick character has a nice nose... xD)

Edited April 24, 2011 by Sitruuna

[Honkytonklagoon]

I'm straight, though I can find women attractive."

This is me, only the opposite. I overwhelmingly prefer the female sneeze, but there might be the stray male sneeze that caches my fancy.

This and the other thread are both very interesting. I've always thought the members of this community were intelligent, thoughtful people.

[Jorm]

I've always thought the members of this community were intelligent, thoughtful people.

What a silly mistake to have made. You should have known we're all drooling cretins with only three brain cells between us!

[Marceline]

1. Meh. I'm pretty sure I'm bisexual, maybe, but I'm pretty much questioning. It's different for everyone, I guess, but when I think of "sexy", girls definitely jump to my mind. Also, "male body parts" sort of scare me. I can imagine myself in a relationship with either gender, but for girls I'm more of a specific type. Actually, the same sort of goes for guys. I have a crush on a girl right now. Oh, who knows.

2. I like both. Male sneezes sometimes disgust me, while females never do. Usually, I only find sneezes/colds a turn-on when they belong to someone I'm attracted to at all.

[elements]

I guess I am technically bisexual. I don't really like to carry a label..I just do what I do with whomever I feel moved to do things with. I am in a long term relationship with a man, and love him to death and want my future with him....but I enjoy sex with girls too. And My guy is really understanding of that. I only do things with girls I am friends with and know really well first though.

And I usually prefer girl's sneezes, but I love my guy's sneezes, and there are many other guys who get my attention

[cheech]

1. i'm straight

2. i enjoy both male and female sneezing. male probably ranks higher than female- but they both do it for me

sneezing is the ONLY thing that will attract me to the same gender

[Leopold]

I originally wasn't going to reply to this since I assumed my answers would be middle-of-the-road, but it seems I'm the only one to answer with the following combination, so what the heck, right?

1. I'm straight.

2. Female only. Because of this, being exposed to excessive male sneezing makes me a bit awkward. Because the fetish is so well established in my mind, witnessing men sneezing is like watching gay porn. Not judging anyone who enjoys such, or other orientations at all (I actually had a gay roommate once, he was a great guy), just saying it's not for me, you know?

[Honkytonklagoon]

I've always thought the members of this community were intelligent, thoughtful people.

What a silly mistake to have made. You should have known we're all drooling cretins with only three brain cells between us!

So you know that none of those three brain cells are mine.

[Bluebird]

This one is a toughie for me...

1.) I'm actually not sure what the hell I am...I'm actually pretty sure I'm straight but it's like I'm getting so many mashed thoughts telling me otherwise, that I'm bi (which is not actually what I want. Not that I'm homophobic or anything, since I've got a gay cousin and uncle who are both married). But what scares me though is that I could very well be a les or bi and not know it because I can't tell.

And yet, I've got no sexual drive, so I'm calling myself an asexual.

But hey. Being gay pretty much runs in my family, so who knows? I could be the first lesbian!

...that's not what I want, though! XD;;

2.) Also a toughie. I'm gonna say female here, because that's what I'm more used to and what I like better. Of course, as stated before, no drive so everything's a-ok. I'm totally open to males, too. Cool with anything, to. :3

Edited April 27, 2011 by Paws

[ThePokeFan599]

The main questions I have are thus:

1) What do you consider to be your sexual orientation? Straight, gay, bisexual, asexual, etc.?

2) What gender sneezing do you prefer, if you have a preference?

1) I am definitely straight.

2) I definitely prefer female sneezes over male sneezes.

[NameTaken]

1) I am straight. I will find women attractive, don't mind lesbian porn, LOVE man on man. But yeah. Being subjected to girls all the time at an all girls' school has made me quite certain at this point that I prefer men.

2) Originally it was just male. I prefer male IRL, in fiction, in art; but listening to wavs and videos, it's so much easier to find female. So I go with that Still prefer male though.

Saying this, I don't doubt my own ability to fall in love with either gender, if that person is the one for me.

Does anyone else like to think of sexuality on a spectrum, rather than just dead-on labels? I know a lot of people who share this idea, just wondering if anyone on here did too

[Skiffy]

Does anyone else like to think of sexuality on a spectrum, rather than just dead-on labels? I know a lot of people who share this idea, just wondering if anyone on here did too

I think you're probably right. That seems to be an open-minded, healthy and logical way to view sexuality...but...I want a label. Not knowing what sexual identity you can claim as your own and which group you belong to can feel pretty frustrating and isolating. Maybe that's just me being insecure and immature about the whole thing.