I finally told him!!

[azlink10]

So, having been dating this guy D for almost 2 years now, and I finally told him! I actually didn't know I had the fetish until well into our relationship; I realized i got butterflies in my stomach every time he coughed or sneezed, googled around a bit, and stumbled upon the forum.....

anyway, back on topic, my love D is 6'1" with black hair and hazel eyes, a big nose he's self conscious about but that I love, and a disappointingly unsneezy disposition I could probably count on two hands the number of times I've seen him sneeze...I think it's hard for him, I've seen quite a few more buildups, false starts, and nose-rubs

we were skyping the other day when he gives an adorable (heh)-schoo! (I'm bad at spellings; his are usually very ah-choooo with a defined, TOO CUTE 'oo' but this one had less of that!). In public, he's meticulous about sneezing into his elbow, but since he was just in his bed with the laptop skyping me (shirtless!!) he let this one go into a fist I blessed him and he thanked me, and a few minutes later this conversation started:

(between the sneeze and this conversation we started to 3way skype with a friend, so we kept up a private conversation in a text chat box, which was where this occurred)

me : wanna know a secret?

[11/08/11 11:16:00 PM] D: yea

[11/08/11 11:16:09 PM] me : ITS EMBARRASSING

[11/08/11 11:16:10 PM] me : <3

[11/08/11 11:16:11 PM] me : sortof

[11/08/11 11:16:22 PM] me: i think i have a D sneeze fetish

[11/08/11 11:16:25 PM] me : ITS SO CUTEEEE

[11/08/11 11:16:27 PM] D: hahahaha

[11/08/11 11:16:28 PM] D: awww

[11/08/11 11:16:30 PM] D: thankssss

[11/08/11 11:16:38 PM] D: )))))

[11/08/11 11:16:44 PM] me : is that too weiiiirrrrrddd?

[11/08/11 11:16:50 PM] D: you should get something I'm alergic tooooo and bring it to bed

[11/08/11 11:16:56 PM] D: so while we are having fun i can sneeze

[11/08/11 11:16:56 PM] me : hahaha AWWWWW

[11/08/11 11:16:58 PM] me : AAAHHGG

[11/08/11 11:17:04 PM] me : ...i would love that so mucchhhh

[11/08/11 11:17:06 PM] D:

[11/08/11 11:17:06 PM] me : *huggles*

needless to say, I couldn't stop beaming for the next few minutes life is good...

[BelieveInRollins]

Wow that's pretty awesome..congrats on telling him

[stevie_sloth]

Cool! That's like the best outcome ever!!

[Vetinari]

[11/08/11 11:16:50 PM] D: you should get something I'm alergic tooooo and bring it to bed

[11/08/11 11:16:56 PM] D: so while we are having fun i can sneeze

Wow now that is a cool reaction!

Glad it went well for you.

[obsessed]

Sounds like a keeper.

Congrats!!

[elements]

Oh wow! That was so understanding

[azlink10]

yeah, he's great the thing is, we've sort of discussed fetishes lately and talked about how they could be kind of handy...he's got a masochistic streak and i know that it arouses him when I hurt him in the right context... he hasn't quite come to terms with it and officially dubbed it his fetish, but we both know he has it