If you had a family member with the fetish

[nolongeractive]

Having a twin sister who shares the fetish, I'm sort of curious to see how other people would feel about this. How would you respond (in general, to certain (on-topic) situations) knowing you had a family member with the fetish, too?

For me, it's something my sister and I have grown used to (since it's been this way all our lives), but it definitely took some time to get there. We don't really talk about it directly, but over Skype we can and sometimes we swap on-topic stories we've written or enjoyed. Though there are times where we're with friends and something comes up that's generally awkward. A little weird, but you learn to live with it - you have to. xD;

Edited July 23, 2012 by The Cracked Egg

[Hankysneeze]

You have a twin with the fetish! Wow! That is crazy I wouldn't be able to deal with a family member with the fetish, it would just be to weird for me, and too much to deal with *feels a bit I'll with thought*

I'm glad it has worked out for you though!

[NoV]

I have to say I have a great reluctance to have any sort of coversation that relates to anything sexual with another family member, and this would certainly cover sneezing too. If I found out a sibling of mine had the fetish, I very much doubt it would be a regular topic of onversation between us. However, some people have a much more open dialogue with their family about such matters, which I think is great if that suits you and you're confortable with it

[smooshi]

Hmm... I have a six year old sister who behaves (on the topic of sneezing) just the way I did when I was her age... And I have the... fondness... of sneezing since I have known for myself.

But I don't think she's old enough to have that type of conversation with her. Maybe her enjoyment of sneezing won't be sexual at all, that's why I don't want to scare her. I mean, I can't grab little girl's shoulders and yell: "Hey, kiddo! What do you think of sneezing???" *nervous laugh*

She has never told anyone she likes it... I just notice her face expression when someone sneezes.

And when she saw one my sketch ( ) she was like: "This is so beautiful!"

So, who knows?

Edited July 23, 2012 by LocaLocaBoka

[sexyhankysneeze]

maybe its just a recessive family gene xP

[Pearlised]

I wouldnt be oposed to discussing it with my sister, we're quite close. It's just the thought that I know what turns her on that I find slightly repulsive. But I think I could deal with it just fine

[nolongeractive]

Yeah, my sister and I are pretty close, so sometimes we don't mind. It's still not something we really discuss out loud though, just over Skype typed conversations. Makes it easier when you don't have to look each other in the eye. xD; If it was anyone else in my family I would die. When I first found out we shared the fetish I almost did! But we got used to it.

It's great to hear other people's responses!

[thesneeze123]

How did you two realize that you both had the fetish????

[alias]

I would love it if one of my sisters had the fetish. We are really close and completely comfortable talking about anything. I don't think I can get embarrassed in front of them. It would be fun when you make fetishy discoveries (like finding a clip of your celebrity crush) and having someone to rave about it to.

[tma]

Maybe it's different for me since I have no sisters - just four younger brothers. There is NO way that I would even Remotely be comfortable with *any* of my family being on here, talking to me about anything sf, or even knowing that they had same fetish.

[Sniffle Lover]

I would be too weirded out to bring up the conversation. If the other person brought it up then maybe I'd talk about it with them but if it was like a sibling but a parent no.

[nolongeractive]

How did you two realize that you both had the fetish????

We've really known since we were younger because of certain things we would do when playing together, like we would both ask my cousin to reread a poem about sneezing and (rarely but it still happened) used sneezing-while-hiding when playing with our stuffed animals. After we grew up a bit we really kept it to ourselves, but about three years ago on New Years Eve my sister just kind of told me. I said "okay" but was secretly actually really angry and embarrassed because I was pretty sure she knew I had the fetish, too, and there was no way I was ready to talk about it. Unfortunately, though, she went into my room and read my private journals which had on-topic stories in them. I was so embarrassed, and I got so mad at her, I yelled at her like I never have in my life. xD; My poor sissy, though, she took it so hard I apologized for yelling. For a while I pretended that nothing happened and didn't bring it up much, but after she left for school (and I no longer had to look her in the face while talking xD), I typed to her over Skype that I really did share the sneeze fetish. That's when we officially came clean about it, and though we don't really discuss it openly we still swap stories and stuff like that.

[LeapYearKisses]

My sister knows I like sneezing as a kink, but we share other interests as well, so it doesn't feel weird at all. We're very close, so I don't feel uncomfortable sharing things with her. (Hope that doesn't sound strange; seems like most people here aren't that open with their siblings...) I wouldn't want to know if my parents or brother shared the interest, though my brother and I talked a lot when we were younger about these kinds of things... Now it would be a little too much information!

[Deadsh0t]

I'd actually be pretty interested to know if any of my family members had the fetish, as it'd definately come a little closer to confirming my suspicions that the fetish is genetic.

I wouldn't want to know about their fetish in any great detail, though because it'd be totally squicky *shudder*, just whether they had it or not.

[Bluebird]

I would be discussing it all the time, I think. I wish my twin sister had it so you're very lucky. IF she had it, I can see it happening like how we discuss our fandoms- she'd message me in the middle of the night on Oovoo from her bedroom with a video or something of what she'd found (how it works in the summer anyway), and we'd just be having discussions. I think, in all honest, we'd just do what you do, Cracked Egg. Message each other, not really talk about it in public.

You're lucky to have a sister to talk about it with, I think. <:

Edited July 25, 2012 by Paws

[David]

I wonder if it's a coincidence that your twin sister (same DNA) has the same fetish...maybe there's something that makes one genetically predisposed to having this fetish? I find it unlikely but interesting. Thanks for sharing

[Ciel]

You're really lucky! If I had a twin, I would definitely talk to her about it - gladly. But sadly in real life I don't have a twin. So even if I find out that one of my family members has the fetish, it would be really... awkward. *shudders at the very thought*

[Jorm]

I'm not sure I'd really care all that much one way or the other to be honest. Though I'm glad my mother doesn't because she has a terrible habit of over-sharing WAY too much information.

[iheartsneezn]

I would love to have a family member with the fetish like a brother or cousin, just someone to talk with about it face to face in a buddy buddy kind of way and not have to worry about feeling like a weirdo or a freak and not have to hide it all the time. Instead talking about how hot so an so was at the party or whatever we could be like, "hey did you hear such and such having a sneeze attack the other day... I know! it was pretty awesome right!"

Edited July 28, 2012 by iheartsneezn

[Hollow]

I can't even imagine anyone from my family having the fetish...