Talking about my fetish

[24Me]

Most likely someone has already done this, but I needed to talk about it. I told my sister about my fetish, and she hasn't let it drop! I so wish that I hadn't told her!!! Does anyone else feel the same?

[Zebra]

First of all welcome to the forum. You told your sister??! Wow, you must be really close. When you say she hasn't let it drop, do you mean she's winding you up about it or questioning you? Or both? I've told my best friends along with someone online and they don't mention it too much but sometimes they give me a look. Or they'll start talking about it quietly and I have to tell them to shut up in case someone hears. If I were you I'd tell her how you feel. Unless she has a fetish herself, I doubt she knows exactly how personal/private it is. However if it's mild banter you could try and wait it out? I do wish I hadn't told certain people sometimes because I find it hard to rely on other people especially with secrets but it was getting to the point where I had to let it out somehow. I wouldn't make it obvious you like sneezing if you regret telling her too. Avoid bringing it up. Plus ACT NATURAL. If you go all awkward/embarrassed when someone sneezes she could catch on to that and make it even worse. Other than that you'll just have to live with it. It's not the worst thing ever right?

[24Me]

g123, I mean she will say when someone sneezes " how did that affect you," or "did you like that?" Or whatever and it annoys me. I mean, we are close, but it just slipped out. I never meant to tell her.

[Bluebird]

I definitely know the feeling of having to talk about the fetish- all too well, in fact. And with me, it's not just one person, it's three different people that I feel like I HAVE to tell. But the way your sister is acting sounds a little like when I told my cousins about my fetish for the first time. I mean, I think they've all forgot about it by now, but I definitely remember when I first told them, my eldest cousin would not stop teasing me about it! Every little thing we would talk about, she'd bring it up, or her brother would bring it up, but only in private. My only suggestion is to maybe talk to her about it but otherwise, everything g123 said is pretty effective.