Does sneezing ever make you angry if it was caused by someone else's lack of consideration?

[Shay]

I was having a fetishy chat with my SO today I was telling him that a really evil idea came into my head, that I was trying to imagine how it would effect him if the smell of flowers somehow got into his CPAP machine(he has sleep apnea). Now of course I wasn't really serious about it and it was just a silly little fantasy that popped into my head, but then he told me that had actually happened. Was something to do with a bottle of his mother's perfume leaking when they were travelling.

When I heard that I didn't even want to hear any details about his reaction at all cause the whole situation just pissed me off. Now I'm not saying that his mother made the perfume bottle leak on purpose, but I really think she just shouldn't be using the stuff at all if she's going to be around him when she knows he's allergic to it. He's told me about so many situations where he's gone into fits due to products his mother uses when she knows full well how he reacts to it, and I just can't get any enjoyment out of it at all. All that happens is I end up being extremely annoyed with his mother for being inconsiderate. Oddly enough I think it upsets me more than it does him.

Then later on when we were talking he mentioned that in college he suspected that other students had purposely done things to set him off sneezing during tests, which only made me angry and I wish I could go back in time and slap those kids. I mean that sort of behavior isn't acceptable at anytime, but college students should really be more mature than that.

So does anyone else find that they just can't get any enjoyment from sneezing if it was caused by someone either being inconsiderate or just flat out malicious?

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Any time someone's being malicious I have a problem with it. I feel conflicted about consideration. I don't think I'd be angered by it, exactly, but it isn't something I'd encourage either.

[Chanel_no5]

Lack of consideration can be a lovely thing in a fetish story, but in reality, I'd just feel bad for the one suffering to get any enjoyment out of it at all. And trust me. I have been that inconsiderate person, by wearing stable clothes in public. I felt so ashamed I felt I was going to die. Luckily, the girl only had the sniffly/sneezy kind of allergies and she said it was alright, but needless to say, I wasn't the slightest bit turned on because I was busy battling with my guilt.

[Shay]

Thanks for your responses. Glad I'm not the only one that feels this way.

[marv77]

I feel you. Sometimes, I'll fantasize about certain things, but then it will strike me that if they actually happened in real life, I'd just feel guilty or bad and wouldn't enjoy it.

[Ciel]

Yes, I just can't tolerate it when people are not considerate. Accidents I can understand, but when done in full awareness I just go really angry inside. I have very mild sleep apnea too, so I feel for him! I guess the sneezing would just not be the same. Any enjoyment derived would be hollow for me and I would end up feeling bad.

[Shay]

Yeah there's just a huge difference between me doing stuff to make my SO sneeze with his permission(and he knows I'd stop immediately if he asked me to), and someone else doing it with full awareness of how he reacts to it, just cause they care about what they want to do more than his well being.