Thanks, but no thanks?

[VoOs]

Man. I'm such an ungrateful fetishist, sometimes.

My woman has, on a number of occasions, told me she wants to induce for me while we're making out.

She is beautiful, she has a very sensitive nose, and her sneezes are intense, desperate and ticklish-sounding - just the kind of sneezes that I love the most. And yet...

I don't want her to induce for me. Whenever she asks me, I have to decline. While feeling horribly foolish. It's too embarrassing. I feel uncomfortable and creepy, and while she's the one who always brings it up and clearly wants to do it, I feel like my weird kink would somehow ruin the mood. For her. For me. I don't know. ><

It's such a strange thing. My fetish is utterly sexual, and yet I don't feel like it belongs in the bedroom. At all.

Still, there is some part of me that wants to try. Maybe I could learn to appreciate it?

Blaahh. [File under: "WTF, fetish, seriously?"]

[Mr Sneezy]

WTF indeed. I've had women inducing for me and it's pure heaven.

[Kshu]

I think you should probably try at least once. Maybe you wouldn't know you liked it until you tried?

[murphy dee]

I COMPLETELY UNDERSTAND YOU, VoOs. @__@ I wouldn't want my boyfriend to induce for me either, and I really like his sneezes. I can't even properly explain why. It would just be so awkward and I'd feel like he wasn't really into it and just uuggghhdfasldkjafsk.

[deepinhale]

I completely understand your position. This fetish is such a personal thing.... While the thought of our fantasies being actually fulfilled sounds good, the opportunity for it to actually happen could be too much for some of us.

[a-tissue]

I think I get it - I can understand how embarrassment could overwhelm arousal under those circumstances.

[TheCakeIsAlive]

If you want to try, maybe you could do it at a more neutral place than the bedroom itself? So if it's awkward, at least if doesn't have direct associations with the bedroom / bedroom-behaviour?

I know the feeling exactly. My boyfriend knows about the fetish, but I don't want him to do anything with it. Just the idea makes me feel incredibly awkward. There's only one person in my life so far with whom I'm completely at ease with the fetish and taking it into the bedroom and I really cherish that.

[•.*°•☆. Q .☆•°*.•]

Yes! I know how you feel! It is not ungrateful, no worries. It's like sneezing is a different thing to sexing. They should not mix. It would be weird. For me at least, my mind is in a different place than sneeziness when I'm sexing all up on someone, and if they made a conscious effort to include sneezing, well... it would seem really unnatural. Which is not sexy. It would be like... staged. And bad. And uncomfortable.

[Kiwifruit]

While watching someone induce is kind of hot in one way, I really prefer natural sneezes, so it would just kind of feel weird for me. I definitely agree. If my partner sneezed while we were getting it on it would be fantastic, but inducing...nooooo

[March Hare]

Maybe if she did it a few times without your expecting it, first? You could suggest she "surprise" you with a sneak-induced sneeze or two just to see what it's like when she does that for you. If you're afraid your fetish will ruin the mood, maybe it's better for her inducing to create the mood, than the other way round?

Don't worry too much. Close your eyes and think of her sneezes, which she wants to please you with. Enjoy the dream a little before trying out reality.

[_Daisy_]

Honestly, I think that I would feel the same way. I think that a major aspect of this fetish for me is the "uncontrollable" aspect of it...inducing seems to detract from the spontaneous-ness of it all...and I would definitely feel a bit on the spot too. :/

[Pearlised]

As previously advised, if it doesnt feel like it fits in the bedroom try taking it to a neutral area and give it a go

[stevie_sloth]

Man. I'm such an ungrateful fetishist, sometimes.

My woman has, on a number of occasions, told me she wants to induce for me while we're making out.

She is beautiful, she has a very sensitive nose, and her sneezes are intense, desperate and ticklish-sounding - just the kind of sneezes that I love the most. And yet...

I don't want her to induce for me. Whenever she asks me, I have to decline. While feeling horribly foolish. It's too embarrassing. I feel uncomfortable and creepy, and while she's the one who always brings it up and clearly wants to do it, I feel like my weird kink would somehow ruin the mood. For her. For me. I don't know. ><

It's such a strange thing. My fetish is utterly sexual, and yet I don't feel like it belongs in the bedroom. At all.

Still, there is some part of me that wants to try. Maybe I could learn to appreciate it?

Blaahh. [File under: "WTF, fetish, seriously?"]

Oh, I SO know what you mean. My online significant other knows about my fetish and seems to love it. He has induced for me in videos he's sent me online, and it was AMAZING. Normal inducing and also sexual-scenario inducing too. AMAAAAZING.

And yet, in person, if we were in the bedroom so to speak, I would be SOOOO awkward if he wanted to induce, or if he faked a sneeze or something, thinking it'd enhance my "bedroom feelings". I just want NATURAL sneezes. Nothing forced, nothing induced, nothing he'd have to even think about. Just natural. This is why I never told anyone about the fetish before...not just because of embarrassment, but because it'd take away some of the naturalness that I love.

[Raven Insight]

You should give it a try, she's willing and it couldn't hurt. In fact, at times it's helpful.

[katya]

I understand you, it is som kind wierd

[Satan]

i understand that you're uncomfortable, but i would definetly be incredibly happy if i got that offer , you should atleast try it, go for it if she clearly wants to try, and if you don't like it, just don't do it again, can't hurt to try