Secrets, hidden secrets ~

[SpookyScarySkeleton]

We all have secrets don't we?. I'd say my fetish is my biggest secret. Would that be yours?(heh idk) I'm aware that some of you have told your friends or partner but some may still be hiding it like me. Those who are hiding it... Do you basically cringe or feel your stomach flip when someone sneezes?. Are you embaressed of being "turned on" by a sneeze?. Have you ever tryed telling someone but chickened out?. I've tryed to tell my best friend once, it was about 1am or 2am , I was like "hey lets play truth or dare?" Her "Okay" me "so what do you find attractive ?" Her "Pardon me?" Me " Like uhm hair color or something" (trying to act normal ) her "Im not sure" me "Oh". And that's how I didn't tell her. Gold star for failures ^-^. So .. Yeh you guys tell me your answers for those questions.

[Lexi]

Once my ex boyfriend, wh was my boyfriend at the time, asked me if i have a fetish and i was like 'WHAAAAAAT!? PSSH NOOO' and he said he was just joking. I thought about telling him but I'm extremely glad I didnt

[Sawyer]

A few years ago I was very deny-deny-deny, "have you heard about the sneezing fetish it's so weird", that sort of thing -- I would have rather died than admit it to anybody. Within the past year or so I've become a lot more comfortable and although I don't think I wouldn't outright say it (although my boyfriend does know... but he's the only one!) I'm definitely not one to deny it. I've talked about how my sexuality is "different" and how "I'm not really turned on by conventional sex", but when people ask me to elaborate further I'm honest and say, "It isn't really something I'm ready to talk about yet, but maybe some day!"

Ugh, I'm sure they'll figure it out though (I think one friend already has). I guess it wouldn't be the end of the world if they did... albeit a little awkward (but probably a little liberating too)!

[Azrael]

ok whenever someone sneezes around me, i dont care unless its someone really hot. never does it make me uncomfortable unless its relatives.

im not embarassed by having the fetish and being turned on by sneezes really..i enjoy it, and other than that i dont let it get to me that much.

ive actually never chickened out when telling someone, like boyfriends. if i wanted someone to know, they sure as hell would know it would always just bug me and make me anxious till i finally just got sick of it, and told them none of the people ive told ever had negative reactions either.

as for the biggest secret i have.....i dont really have anything huge. i guess the only thing i can come up with NOW is that i find Vladimir Putin extremely attractive. yeah....some secret

[MoonDuck]

I realized people dream about their fears. I have 2 recurring ones. Barfing (ha yeah I'm weird) and people finding this website.

But in my dreams, I'm not afraid of the first. In my dreams, I'm afraid of the second. I don't even know why. I wouldn't deny it, but I wouldn't go out and tell people I have a sneezing fetish

[Europa]

I have 2 recurring [nightmares]. Barfing (ha yeah I'm weird) and people finding this website.

This is apparently fairly common among people with this fetish actually! You're not alone.

But to answer the original question, I have told one person, and I'm glad I did. I doubt I'll ever be more open with it than telling a handful of people (many people just don't want to know those kinds of details anyway), but I'm not nearly as averse to the idea of people finding out as I used to be. It's not something I have control over, and it's an interesting quirk that doesn't affect anyone but me anyway.

Honestly I'm almost positive that most people wouldn't find it nearly as weird/scary/bad as we think they would. Always having to hide it builds it up to seem like a bigger deal than it really is.

[Sonicman]

i've actualy told two people a couple of days ago and they seemed fine with it. i had no troubles telling them this stuff. although i had to find couarge to do so

[Armor.]

I have never told anyone, but my boyfriend kind of figured it out on his own. He kind of caught on when I started getting frisky when his allergies would act up or he would get sick. I never plan on outright telling anyone or admitting to having the fetish, but that's fine with me. It's my secret, and it's hidden way deep deep down.

[a_nonny_mouse]

I used to be super secretive about it.

These days I tell all my friends with few exceptions - anyone close enough for "what we find attractive" to come up as a conversational topic, I guess. I do this in part because I'm committed to fetish liberation and enough people have thanked me for talking about my life openly and making them feel better about their own, that it's now a basic assumption of mine - living openly is a good deed for others and paves the way to a more tolerant society!

It gets easier each time I say it.

The most common reactions I get, which depends I think mostly on how open the other person is about sexual topics in general, are:

"Oh! That's strangely cute,"

"Hmm, what attracts you about it?"

...and I explain that it's the most physiologically similar reaction to orgasm and that I feel like my fetish is a type of synaesthesia, and it tends to go over pretty well. Actually not a bad cocktail party topic at that point. I don't think I've ever seen anyone get upset with me about it or be any more uncomfortable than, say, a straight guy hearing me talk about how sexy another dude was, or whatever.

Occasionally people who are generally more open with me about kink topics will ask in-depth questions like "So... how does that work? What about related stuff like mucus and contagion? Do you want to be sneezed on or do you just like to watch people sneeze?" and so on.

[Hygge]

I actually don't know if this is my biggest secret... Like, it's strange, it's not a secret that creates a lot of anxiety with me. I have some secrets like that, but for some reason I'm pretty confident that I won't let it slip that I'm into sneezing. So I'm comfortable with it being a secret and don't plan on telling anyone lol.

I'm really close with my cousins and we've talked about fetishes before. And they're like "everyone has a fetish" haha. So I sit there and try to think of one. Basically I'm like, other than sneezing, what's something I find attractive... And I can never come up with something on the spot but they go on about what they like instead. I've never been tempted to tell anyone. If anyone ever brought it up I would deny it very casually lol.

If they had proof like knew who I was on this website, that would freak me out. And I would try to come up with some kind of excuse and would be terrified then lol. But as long as I can deny it, I'm ok

I totally get nervous when other people sneeze tho haha. Cus I'm like...should I bless them? Errr should I say anything? Does it look weird if I just ignore it? And a lot of times I ignore it. I'm too nervous to bless people but I'd like to. Sometimes I'll make some kind of sarcastic remark and they don't suspect a thing lol. And family sneezing. Ugh hate it.

Yeah I'm kind of embarrassed about it just like... Why would that turn me on. Ugh cringe, I'm a weirdo lol. But I mean, I can't dislike it so it's not really a big deal for me..

[Kildre]

The two biggest kinks I have (this and one other) have always been my biggest secrets. The idea of anyone finding out is so anxiety-inducing that it actually makes me shake. I don't know why, because it's not like it's that big a deal, but y'know. I was absolutely terrified to tell my girlfriend about it, honestly. I ended up doing it anyway, but not without those awful stomach flips, and I had to talk into a pillow to be able to say it. I'm the kind of person that has difficulty even saying the word "sneeze" and I end up cringing really hard when she brings it up in a fetishy context.

[Hiding in the corner]

We all have secrets don't we?

Do you basically cringe or feel your stomach flip when someone sneezes?

Are you embaressed of being "turned on" by a sneeze?

Have you ever tryed telling someone but chickened out?

For the questions... I pretty much depends of the person, sometimes i just get chills down my spine, sometimes i just kinda ignore it all.

A little, I'm trying to accept it, but it's pretty difficult.

I have told about 2 people, First one i was depressed and drunk and i just had none to talk to and I just went for it. I dont know if the person believes in it, since my condition, but it's not that important.

Second time I wanted to tell my best friend about it, because we dont have secrets and I knew I could trust her, because if i would keep secrets from her how could she trust me, so after a little while of getting all words in correct order in my mind, I just asked her that if i could tell her something that might be little disturbing and strange, she said ofcourse and after collecting some courage, i told her about the fetish. She accepted it actually very well and she has never mocked me about it. Which is why she is my best friend and I know i can trust her.

But I would never admit it to anyone i wouldnt know too well and never to anyone in my family... I just dont even want to consider that.