Worst fear

[Dayalive14]

So yesterday I was with my bf his friend, and a few if my friends, we were just standing around and my bf suddenly looked at me and says "I know a huge turn on of hers" now I don't have that many so I knew exactly what he was talking about. Of course after he said that everyone was all over him wanting to know leaving me standing there like this is a joke...right?? After he had people's attention he walked away a bit and started acting like he was building up for a sneeze(dripping in fake-ness if that's even a word) everyone was still looking at Jim and I was horrified!! I couldn't believe what I told him about the fetish he was even talking about at all even though he knows how embarrassed I am by it and don't want people to know and how much it took me to trust him enough to tell him! I bolted at him and her turned around going "oh crap oh crap" normally I would have ignored him but I couldn't let him keep being so obvious about it, smart thing to do would have probably been to laugh it off but I usually don't go for the smart things plus I was a little in shock and terrified. I chased him only untill I thought we were out if earshot then I waited for him to come to me ,he did and then started being worse and throwing out stuff like do you like being sneezed on?!! You do! I bet you do!! When I told him to shut up and lower his voice that made it worse ,the rest of the group started to stare and he looked at me and was like " oh I'm gonna sneeze again" started laughing and then said there's nothing wrong with liking to be sneezed on!" And then did a obvious fake sneeze torwards me, he then looked at me and said " does it effect you that much!? " I told him he wasn't effecting me positively and that he was only pissing me off and that did he not understand the meaning of the word? He kept being super loud and I was wanting to crawl under a rock the entire time, he also kept threatening to tell them , which most people I wouldn't take seriously, but he is the type of person that would . Stuff like this is litaraly the stuff I have had nightmares about

>.< I was horrified

If anyone needs me I will be living underground

>.<

[bloom]

Wow, that's incredibly disrespectful of him. I would be absolutely livid.

I'm sorry that happened to you. I would be sitting him down and having a looooooong talk about what to keep private and what's okay to talk about. :\

Edited March 13, 2014 by Junia

[Arty]

That freaking messed up. See!??its people like him.that make people with fetishes like us scared to talk about it.

[Hissybella]

>:C

THAT'S HORRIBLE!

D: I'm so sorry for what happened to you D:

That's...ughh..

[Garnet]

Wow, how old is he? Sounds very... :| Juvenile, I guess.

Time for a new boyfriend. I would straight up murder mine.

[Psyneezy]

Woaaaah that's not cool

*big hug* for ya!

[Renee]

That was really disrespectful for him to do that to you in front of everyone. I would have a long talk with him or just dump him

[sneezyanimeboyfriends]

He sounds like he doesn't respect something very important about you. I would have a talk with him and ask him to apologize and ask why he acted that way towards you.

If he refuses to respect you, I'm sorry to say but you should leave him. :/ How incredibly rude of him.

[SpookyScarySkeleton]

What a dick he is. *shakes head* no you don't do that, bad boyfriend . Like.. Just no. Ignorant rude asshole. Ugh. I'm so sorry this happend to you ;c have a talk about it (calmly if you can manage) c: and tell him why it makes you angry/frustrated when he try's to give out your secret to the world. See, and this is why you don't tell people about your fetish unless your 10000000% sure you can trust them.. Sorry mate D:

[AOTgirl2]

I would have a serious talk with him on how he embarrassed you and that it was extremely rude of him. If he says something like "But I was just having fun!", you may want to consider dumping him. If he can't respect you, he isn't right for you. And I feel terrible that he told. It was very disrespectful of him and you deserve much better! I wish you the best!

[beatlelover22]

That's positively awful. Definitely talk to him... maybe he didn't fully comprehend how private that information was to you? I'm sorry that happened though... hang in there

[Dayalive14]

I dumped him , it was a last straw to a long list of things ,but that headed the list still worried he might say something now,one of the only people I though I could trust and one of the only I had told ever he is very immature. Well time to go back to keeping it to people on the forum ,youtube and myself .works for me

[Dayalive14]

He sounds like he doesn't respect something very important about you. I would have a talk with him and ask him to apologize and ask why he acted that way towards you.

If he refuses to respect you, I'm sorry to say but you should leave him. :/ How incredibly rude of him.

Respect I see now is not in his vocabulary

[Dayalive14]

That freaking messed up. See!??its people like him.that make people with fetishes like us scared to talk about it.

Exactly

[Arty]

Good girl!!!! We'll support u girl!!

[sneezyanimeboyfriends]

i'm really proud of you!! Please remember to take care of yourself, and if he tries to do really immature things behind your back, confront him about it. Don't let anyone talk down to you because you don't deserve that!

[Dayalive14]

Good girl!!!! We'll support u girl!!

Thanks!

[Arty]

Werd!

[Dayalive14]

i'm really proud of you!! Please remember to take care of yourself, and if he tries to do really immature things behind your back, confront him about it. Don't let anyone talk down to you because you don't deserve that!

I definetly will confront him, nobody deserves that

[a_nonny_mouse]

Don't give up on telling partners forever because of this. Remember that disrespectful abusive people will use ANYTHING against you whether it is a fetish or the color of your eyes... and you're right to kick them to the curb. A REAL partner will support you and respect you for yourself.

Stay safe. Don't go see him without telling someone trustworthy where you are.

[FreeFluShots]

Haven't read the other comments, but I'm just looking for the words, "after I dumped him"...

[Dayalive14]

Don't give up on telling partners forever because of this. Remember that disrespectful abusive people will use ANYTHING against you whether it is a fetish or the color of your eyes... and you're right to kick them to the curb. A REAL partner will support you and respect you for yourself.

Stay safe. Don't go see him without telling someone trustworthy where you are.

I wont be seeing him anytime soon hopefully

[Dayalive14]

Haven't read the other comments, but I'm just looking for the words, "after I dumped him"...

those words have been said

[OhDearBlessYou]

You dumped him? YOU GO, GIRL. I would be mortified, and would do the same thing you did. That guy is an absolute prick, and you were right to send him to China. You deserve much better than that, and he was very disrespectful about something important for you. You have my support.

[March Hare]

Yeah, good one on dumping him. He obviously needs to do a lot more growing up before he can handle being someone's boyfriend.