Friend found out

[Sneezypeezy]

Okay, so I was having a sleep over with one of my closest friends and I guess I left my phone unlocked when I feel asleep. I rp on my phone via Kik and she went on it and read the conversation. I woke up in the morning and she confronted me and asked about it. I didn't know what to say. We haven't really talked about it since but she had a huge sneezing fit on FaceTime and it was so awkward I pretended I left the room and didn't hear. She then proceeded to ask me if I thought her sneezes were cute. It's so awkward and I don't really trust her with it and I'm so afraid she's going to tell people. It's so weird and I'm so angry

[bingochamp7]

Ooh, I understand your predicament. Right now, I suggest that the best way to get yourself out is to tell her that you and that friend did that rp as a challenge where you had to pick a topic and stick with it. I'm sorry that you got outed by a friend and that I can't be more helpful.

[StaraiRoalanstjay]

This is probably going to sound like something your Mum would say, but maybe you should reconsider if she is actually your friend or not. If she was just curious about your fetish, she might've waited a few days before talking to you about it, or not said anything at all. It's also concerning that you think she might tell other people. Has she ever done that before, or she the kind of person to spread other peoples secrets?

[•.*°•☆. Q .☆•°*.•]

Wow i can't believe she invaded your privacy looking on your phone like that. I'm sorry this is happening to you. I don't really have advice, but i'm on your side in this.

[squealofapproval]

It's all on her. She shouldn't have looked on your phone. That's an invasion of privacy. So if she wants to think you're weird, it's her problem.

[MaiMai]

I would second the suggestion of saying that the RP was some sort of writing challenge. If you really can't pass it off as anything else, however, I would definitely recommend that you talk to her about it, and explain why it would be upsetting/uncomfortable for you if other people were to find out, and also see if you can set some ground rules for whether you talk about it amongst yourselves. Honestly, if she does tell people after you've spoken to her about it, who is really going to come out better in that situation? If she tells other people something she knows you're not comfortable with others knowing, then she's not going to come out in a great light. Also, she invaded your privacy in the first place! In the event that she does tell, provided whoever it is isn't a total a**, they'll most likely take a dimmer view of her than of you, who has done nothing wrong and has a perfectly harmless fetish.

Sorry, that was a little long, but seriously: you should talk to her about it. Make sure she is aware as soon as possible that you are uncomfortable with this, if she isn't already.

I'm really sorry this happened to you, and I hope it all works out okay!