is my bf like us?

[BananaTree]

I mentioned here that I suspected my bf of maybe having the fetish. Well, he has gotten sick too and told me that he sneezed three times in a row and it "felt so good I got a boner!"

I got super excited about that but yet again, when I pressed him on it he back-peddled and said, "I didn't get a boner from sneezing, it just felt really good lol"

So is there a chance he is like us but just doesn't know what it is? And should I tell him about me...?

 

[Melody]

Well, he sounds pretty chill about sneezing and talking about sneezing in general so I think telling him about your fetish would probably just be a major plus for both of you. Of course, you would know best though!

[•.*°•☆. Q .☆•°*.•]

no, i think he is probably not a fetishist. he was likely saying "felt so good i got a boner" in order to emphasize the relief he felt, the same way some people are like "wow tag your porn" when they see yummy food to emphasize how hungry it made them. They aren't literally hot for the food. It's like that.

[Sophie<3]

You know, based on your account, I think he's likely not one of us. I would be mortified to ever say anything of the sort. In fact, I would never bring up sneezing as a topic of conversation by myself. And I think that's true for the vast majority of us. See, most people without this kink consider sneezing to be the sort of relief that feels kind of good, so a comment like his really doesn't mean much.

That being said, if you want to share your secret with him, you can, of course. He might be really open and accepting. But maybe take some time to think about it before you actually do it, as it can be sort of a scary step and there isn't really any way back once you've told him. So it's best to be sure.

[Stegosaurus]

My instinct is to say the boner comment was probably a figure of speech. I admit that in the past I've made joking references to erections to express pleasure over non-sexual things. I think that if he were a fetishist, he would not have said something that brazen for fear of giving himself away. BUT, this is all just estimation on my part - I don't know him personally.

Also:

33 minutes ago, Sophie<3 said:

That being said, if you want to share your secret with him, you can, of course. He might be really open and accepting. But maybe take some time to think about it before you actually do it, as it can be sort of a scary step and there isn't really any way back once you've told him. So it's best to be sure.

I was thinking something like this, but couldn't word it any better if I sat here and tried all day.

[BananaTree]

Yeah, you guys are probably right...thanks!

 

At least I can enjoy him openly talking about sneezing