I'm a lucky lucky girl

[Alabaster]

So I've been dating this amazing guy for about two months, and I actually TOLD HIM about the fetish! I have never told anyone but we clicked and I just wanted to. It's been amazing, because he'll ask questions about what I like and we will talk about sneezes and he lets me touch his nose absently while we are cuddling. He thinks it's an adorable fetish, which I'll absolutely take. ANYWAY, also lucky me, he has allergies to many things: Dogs, cats, grass, dust, etc! He told me that in the spring he'll sometimes get fits up to a minute or two long! (I can NOT wait). So far, when we are together, he's sneezed like once a day, and that's without allergies bothering him. Knowing about my  fetish, he'll sneeze and then wink at me afterwards, so I absolutely die.

BUT ONTO THE ACTUAL OBS. 

We were in his room, getting ready for the day, and he had just pulled on a thick black hoodie, while I was brushing my hair in the mirror. He had just spritzed on some cologne, which he isn't allergic to but it was a little strong in the small room. He sat down on his bed to put on some shoes when all of the sudden I heard a breathy gasp. My head whipped around towards him (fetish ears, you know we hear it coming a mile away) and he was staring right at me, looking unsure if he could make it over to me. Within a second, he hitched again and sneezed desperately into his elbow-- Hah! HAH-schoo!  It sounds very masculine and desperate with moderate volume. Afterwards he looked up at me and smiled as I giggled and kissed him I'm so lucky, guys! 

[taléya*]

Hello Alabaster,

thank you for sharing your Observation.

You are lucky  

It sounds great your boyfriend accepts your fetish and thinks it is an adorable one.

I think it is more pleasant if someone doesn't judge others and it perhaps makes you felt more comfortable to talk with him about sneezing or his allergies.

Did you felt comfortable as you told him about it?

I wish you both all the best for your future

[Alabaster]

Thanks Taleya! I did! of course I was very nervous and bashful when I told him about it, but his reaction was so perfect, I couldn't help but feel relieved. We've talked about it a lot since then and the fact that he's genuinely curious helps a LOT. 

[taléya*]

1 hour ago, Alabaster said:

Thanks Taleya! I did! of course I was very nervous and bashful when I told him about it, but his reaction was so perfect, I couldn't help but feel relieved. We've talked about it a lot since then and the fact that he's genuinely curious helps a LOT. 

Hello Alabaster,

that sounds great  

I am so happy for you.

I can imagine you felt bashful as you told him but he comforted you with his reaction.

And in my opinion it was kind of courageous you told him after a short time.

I think - cause now you feel relieved - you can create / shape your future without the feeling of you are 'hiding something'

You called him curious that's nice and not a negatively trait at all.

Now you can tell 'my boyfriend knows me by his heart'.

I feel so glad for you, excuse me for my english 

All the best wishes to you. Tudo de bom  

[rockbell]

sooo cute! I'm so happy for you!!