Have your significant others done anything for you to support you with this fetish, even though they don't have the fetish?

[Kitty Kat]

So I just told my husband about my fetish about 2 weeks ago. I was nervous but it all went fine. Since then he has done a couple things that I just love. Last week he sent me a text that simply said "Achoo!!😘". I loved it! Then tonight, after I got out of the shower I went to check my phone and he had sent me a video. Apparently while I was in the shower he had sneezed and recorded it!!! I just thought it was so sweet of him to do that. 😊

What are some things your SOs have done for you? I would love to hear!

[SkolVikes]

I have had ex girlfriends that would sometimes text me and tell me when they sneezed cuz they knew I liked that.  Also, for my benefit, they would sneeze uncovered when it was just us.  It's always nice when your significant other is supportive 😄

[Kitty Kat]

11 minutes ago, SkolVikes said:

I have had ex girlfriends that would sometimes text me and tell me when they sneezed cuz they knew I liked that.  Also, for my benefit, they would sneeze uncovered when it was just us.  It's always nice when your significant other is supportive 😄

That's so sweet, you're right, it's so nice to have a supportive SO. BTW, you don't have to answer this if you're uncomfortable, but are you from MN?  I saw your screen name and flipped for a sec- I live in ND😀😀😀-huge Vikings fan 🏈🏈🏈

[sneffnie]

hiya yes i have ex partners and current who text me to tell me they have sneezed where and what it was like ie. big wet doubles delicious hahah my current partner has gone out of his way found out about chikkni (spelt wrong) and purpously made himself sneezy got into bed and erm stripped me off... cos this isnt 18+ rated site well il leave it there but yer full on amazing  xx

[SleepingPhlox]

Yes.  My partner embraced it.  And boy does this sound ungrateful but... I hate it.  The whole "Boy I just sneezed right now WINK WINK WINK!!!!!!" does nothing for me.   And I feel so guilty that I'm like " Oh you're gonna stick something up your nose?  Cool, I'm gonna go read a book" but that's just how I am.  So it should have been a good thing but because of me it's not.

[Sneesee]

I always find it interesting how other people react to our fetish. Over the years since discovering this community, I have told quite a few people in my life about it. Of course I started with my ex-husband. He didn't truly understand it, and after I first told him he developed a mental block around me for a bit. He did try to be supportive, though. And sometimes he was sweet and would share cute little sneeze stories with me. But there were times when someone else would sneeze and he would either kick me, nudge me, or make a face like, "Did you like that? Did you catch that?" And it would frustrate me sometimes. Plus he was never great at blessing me over the years, which was something I always wanted. 😕

Now, I also shared this fetish with a lot of my male friends at work, because a lot of them had fantastic sneezes. One guy actually recorded himself for me once, and played it on the phone a few times just to cheer me up. I would also get a lot of text messages about their sneezes. And if they sneezed at work, that would lead to a knowing look or conversation about it. Which was a lot of fun.

 Obe of the guys form work I told about it also happens to be my new SO. I thought I would always want someone to induce for me, until now. I have realized that I absolutely love his natural sneezes, and I wouldn't want him doing anything to make himself sneeze. He usually announces them first somehow. Sometimes he'll say "bless you" or "gesundheit" and then sneeze. A couple of times he apologized in advance that he was about to "turn me on." Lol If he sneezes on the phone, he will make sure to tell me he tried to keep the phone close so I could hear it. But he also doesn't make a big deal about it in front of others, which is nice. And if someone else around us sneezes, he doesn't respond except for blessing them. It's not like he makes a funny face or nudges me or anything like that. And he doesn't necessarily expect me to be automatically horny after he sneezes. If we are alone, I may make a comment, or give him a hug or kiss afterwards, but he doesn't expect  certain reaction out of me. While he may not completely understand it or indulge it in every way, I do like the way he handles knowing about it, and how he handles me in regards to it. 😋

[Kitty Kat]

19 hours ago, sneffnie said:

hiya yes i have ex partners and current who text me to tell me they have sneezed where and what it was like ie. big wet doubles delicious hahah my current partner has gone out of his way found out about chikkni (spelt wrong) and purpously made himself sneezy got into bed and erm stripped me off... cos this isnt 18+ rated site well il leave it there but yer full on amazing  xx

😂😂😂Thats awesome! That's very sweet of him to do that!

[Kitty Kat]

14 hours ago, SleepingPhlox said:

Yes.  My partner embraced it.  And boy does this sound ungrateful but... I hate it.  The whole "Boy I just sneezed right now WINK WINK WINK!!!!!!" does nothing for me.   And I feel so guilty that I'm like " Oh you're gonna stick something up your nose?  Cool, I'm gonna go read a book" but that's just how I am.  So it should have been a good thing but because of me it's not.

I can totally understand why that would be annoying. I wouldn't want that all the time either. But why do you feel guilty???

[Kitty Kat]

14 hours ago, Sneesee said:

I always find it interesting how other people react to our fetish. Over the years since discovering this community, I have told quite a few people in my life about it. Of course I started with my ex-husband. He didn't truly understand it, and after I first told him he developed a mental block around me for a bit. He did try to be supportive, though. And sometimes he was sweet and would share cute little sneeze stories with me. But there were times when someone else would sneeze and he would either kick me, nudge me, or make a face like, "Did you like that? Did you catch that?" And it would frustrate me sometimes. Plus he was never great at blessing me over the years, which was something I always wanted. 😕

Now, I also shared this fetish with a lot of my male friends at work, because a lot of them had fantastic sneezes. One guy actually recorded himself for me once, and played it on the phone a few times just to cheer me up. I would also get a lot of text messages about their sneezes. And if they sneezed at work, that would lead to a knowing look or conversation about it. Which was a lot of fun.

 Obe of the guys form work I told about it also happens to be my new SO. I thought I would always want someone to induce for me, until now. I have realized that I absolutely love his natural sneezes, and I wouldn't want him doing anything to make himself sneeze. He usually announces them first somehow. Sometimes he'll say "bless you" or "gesundheit" and then sneeze. A couple of times he apologized in advance that he was about to "turn me on." Lol If he sneezes on the phone, he will make sure to tell me he tried to keep the phone close so I could hear it. But he also doesn't make a big deal about it in front of others, which is nice. And if someone else around us sneezes, he doesn't respond except for blessing them. It's not like he makes a funny face or nudges me or anything like that. And he doesn't necessarily expect me to be automatically horny after he sneezes. If we are alone, I may make a comment, or give him a hug or kiss afterwards, but he doesn't expect  certain reaction out of me. While he may not completely understand it or indulge it in every way, I do like the way he handles knowing about it, and how he handles me in regards to it. 😋

That would be very frustrating, the example you gave about your ex-husband. I'm sure it felt like it was being thrown in your face all the time. Good for you to tell so many people in your life about the fetish! I'm too scared of that....I'm sure you and your coworkers had a lot of fun with it.😊 It sounds like your current SO is doing a great job. 😊

[A couple of times he apologized in advance that he was about to "turn me on."]. That's hilarious!!! 😂😂😂

[AngelEyes]

I told my former SO. He was totally awesome about it. He'd send me random videos or recordings of himself sneezing. He'd do it as foreplay. I don't know how he did it, (I never wanted to know, it would have ruined the illusion of it being natural) but he could make himself sneeze basically on command. And he had a good one! Occasionally he'd use it against me though, as in when it was late and I was supposed to be leaving, he'd suddenly say, oh no I think I have to sneeze, and then do it. And then I'd end up staying entirely longer than intended. LOL

[Secret Sneezer]

When I told my SO about my fetish, I was sooooo nervous. He seemed ok with it though, he even said that he should start sniffing up pepper, which made me extremely flustered! Other than that, he sometimes teases me about it, but that's fine with me.

[delylam]

My last 2 partners were very understanding and even went as far as inducing for me both before and during intimacy.  My husband knows and had a complete non reaction.  He acts like I never even told him.  Although, sometimes he seems to face me more often when he jas an attack and it feels like it is just for me.

[King Mob]

My husband induces for me, while my girlfriend is trying to get the hang of it, as well as sending me any videos she gets of herself sneezing.

[FlowerCrown]

Omg so I just recently told my boyfriend about the fetish and he’s so lovely about it. He’s allergic to pollen and often mows lawns and now he always tells me about it or records himself sneeze if he can catch it in time and his nose is pretty sensitive so he induced for me honestly if fetish heaven is a thing I’m in it. He’s so lovely and I’m so lucky quite honestly. 

[jamesdear1]

I wish my SO did I mentioned it and I think it really weirds her out😔 any way you think it could turn positive?

[Nik]

My SOs were all very supportive and reacted all quite calm and understanding when I told them. They really didn't make a big deal of it, but tried to help me feel ok with the fetish. 

My girlfriend however thinks that I shouldn't make all that big of a deal out of it and she may be right about that. But sometimes its a topic that we get frustrated over, e.g. when I want to induce in front of her. She doesn't like that.

But once she sneezed on me when we were about to get intimate and once she made a diary of her sneezing when we weren't able to see each other for 2 weeks. So that was very cute I think. Also she always makes tiny jokes with me and asks me questions so she better understands whats going on inside me and I really appreciate that!

[VeganSneezeFetishist]

My wife is amazing and beyond supportive  she is so open to exploring the fetish with me. I induce her all the time and she has the best sneezes ever. My favorite sneezing related thing is holdbacks, and she is super good at holding back so we play a lot of games involving holdbacks. 🔥🔥 I really couldn't imagine having a more supportive spouse!

[March Hare]

My ex-boyfriend was pretty goddamn amazing about it and made several of my fantasies come true. When I told my current - for lack of a better word - fuckbuddy, he was cool about it too, and for a little while even enthusiastic (made me two or three recordings and texted sly allusions). He is photic AF, which is an unending source of anticipation, especially in this time of year XD

[Lauren]

When I told my current boyfriend, I was so so so nervous because I had never told anybody about the fetish before. He was supportive in many ways, but the most important thing to me was that he just accepted me for it, and has never done anything (consciously) to make me feel weird about.

But he has also been supportive in more "fun" ways...

• He tried so hard to be able to induce. When the tissue didn't work for him, he even tried paprika (because we didn't have pepper). (NEVER TRY THIS AT HOME LOL) But eventually he got used to just using a tissue, and that's been working pretty well. 
• He indulged one of my care-taking fantasies last night, which was very fun for me 
• I had so many questions about what life is like (related to sneezing) for non-fetishists, and I can always talk about that with him - he's never weird about discussing it. (e.g. I asked him if he would notice if somebody didn't bless him, another questions like that)
• Before I told him about the fetish, he would never remember his sneezes. (Like, when I told him, he even asked me if he had ever sneezed in front of me before! I was like, yes..lol...this time, this time, and that time. haha) Now, when we have intimate time together at the end of the day, he tells me all the details about all his sneezes that I missed that day. I love it.