Telling my husband

[Dayalive14]

so recently I decided to tell my husband about the fetish and it went way wayyy better then I could have hoped. So first off as a visual my husband is almost 6 foot, thin but very muscular and toned.he has a fairly sharp nose strong jawline and gorgeous blue eyes.on top of all that my husband is a photic sneezer. Anytime he looks at a bright light he will sneeze at least once sometimes twice or even three times.  

So Recently me and my husband had a few drinks together at the end of the day and were just talking and partially do to the drinks I decided I was finally going to tell him.  I was still really scared about it as most people who I have ever told in the past have told people who didn't need to know or just reacted badly. After I told him he asked if It would make me happy If he induced. I was honestly super happy and super surprised he offered as I don't know if I could.have gotten enough courage to ask. We went to our em room and we were laying in bed and cuddling and he told me to grab my phone and proceeded to turn on my flashlight and shined it right in his eyes until finally he pitched forward with two perfect sneezes. He kept doing it until he sneezed a couple more times and then smiled and kissed me. It might not have been much but that was the first time anyone has some that for me. Later while we were still cuddling he told me that sometimes when he would concentrate really hard on getting turned on that he noticed he would sneeze. I have never noticed that but he said he would try that as well. Then he also added that this is just another reason we were made perfect for each other. He is the first guy I have ever not felt embarrassed by the fetish with and can actually embrace and I am so so happy because of it. Sorry for rambling but words cannot convey how happy I was/am.

[Privatedancer]

So happy for you.  Someone (don’t remember who) on the site once said their partner loved her fetish becuase it was like a cheat code to get her turned on.  I think that is a great way to describe it to a guy...

[Reader]

I think his reaction is the most perfect reaction a non-sneeze fetish partner could have! So happy for you! 

[Woodsie]

Happy it turned out.  As you explore this with him it will help draw you closer together

[alicex]

12 hours ago, Privatedancer said:

So happy for you.  Someone (don’t remember who) on the site once said their partner loved her fetish becuase it was like a cheat code to get her turned on.  I think that is a great way to describe it to a guy...

That’s a great way to say it haha! 

[Sneesee]

Congratulations! It is always fabulous to hear positive stories about revealing the fetish! And how wonderful of him to indulge you!

[Elektra]

I always both cringe inside *and* feel so good about stories like this. When I picture myself doing the same, though, my first reaction is to feel really uneasy : as if the other person knowing might take out the fetishy aspect of it (does that make any sense to you? )

But on second thought, I think it's because the other person might be uneasy as well. (I tried that with a part of my fetish, and I think my partner felt so uncomfortable using it that it enhanced my initial "shame") If your guy enjoys it and sees it for what it really is (a hell of a way to party:))) then it must be fabulous. 

In short, sorry for rambling as well, it's great! Good for you!

[MidnightCatK]

Reading this honestly made me gush a little. He sounds like an absolute sweetheart and I might not know you personally but I’m so happy for you!

[Dayalive14]

On 3/9/2018 at 1:22 PM, Elektra said:

I always both cringe inside *and* feel so good about stories like this. When I picture myself doing the same, though, my first reaction is to feel really uneasy : as if the other person knowing might take out the fetishy aspect of it (does that make any sense to you? )

But on second thought, I think it's because the other person might be uneasy as well. (I tried that with a part of my fetish, and I think my partner felt so uncomfortable using it that it enhanced my initial "shame") If your guy enjoys it and sees it for what it really is (a hell of a way to party:))) then it must be fabulous. 

In short, sorry for rambling as well, it's great! Good for you!

Honestly I totally get it. Im embarrassed to use my fetish sometimes and if didn't offer there is no way I would ask to embarrassed my husband has just had a way of making me feel.more comfortable with it and not be embarrassed or worry hr is uncomfortable ( it helps.he has his own unique tastes as well so we are equally weird together)