valentina13 Posted December 29, 2018 Share Posted December 29, 2018 I am so sneezy the last two days and the reason for it is so hilarious. I will tell you: I love my fetish and I love my tattoos (now I have 8 ) and so I dedicated a tattoo to my fetish 😍😍. It was planned for months and I am so hapy with the result. Yesterday it was finished and now there is a white lily across my whole spine with lime-green sheets. Lilies are the flowers I am most allergic to. On the meadow (where the lily grows) there leans a black horseshoe against the stipe. The horseshoe stands for all the sweet, fluffy horses I love them and they are so cute but I am horrible allergic to them. After my tattoo was finished I felt very sneezy and the tattooer told me maybe the sneezes are caused because the nerves in my spine are irritaed by all the small stitches from the needle. Did you know this can cause a sneeze,too? Which I think is the most funniest thing that made me sneeze, ever. I am very proud of my tattoo and I think the urge to sneeze will be away in one or two days. But my problem is: I am very sneezy the last two days, often in fits of 5 to 8 sneezes and my boyfriend stopped blessing me 😫 He is used to it that I am a sneezy girl but I had a few situation the last days with him in which he didn't blessed me. At the moment we are with his siblings, he has two brothers and two sisters and there is always someone to bless me, they all know about my allergies and I ejoy it if if they pay attention if I have to sneeze but I like it the most if my boyfriends does. For example yesterday evening we were watching TV my boyfriend cuddled me, his older sister was with us and I had a sneezing fit of six tickly, wet sneezes. I sneezed into my hands because I know they were full of spray, all sounding like tsshhee-hee, but my boyfriend didn't blessed me, only his sister and she asked me if I am fine. I love it to be blessed but he ignored my last fits. It hurts me a lot because his blessings are the cutest. So I wondered maybe he is tired of my sneezes? Or he thinks if his sister blessed me is enough? Should I ask him why he stopped, or should I wait? I would love to tell him that his behavior hurts me but first I wanted to ask you for your opinion. Thanks for answers Link to comment
Woodsie Posted December 29, 2018 Share Posted December 29, 2018 Does he know about you fetish? Link to comment
Reader Posted December 29, 2018 Share Posted December 29, 2018 Between the two possibilities, I think it’s because his sister said it first so he didn’t see any reason to. Once you’re alone, he’ll probably start up again. And if he doesn’t know about your fetish, he won’t know the impact those words make on you. Like saying thank you is polite, but people don’t say it for every occasion where a thank you can be said. Personally, I think it’s better to wait until he blesses you again, and then make sure to smile, or kiss him or hug him as you thank him. He will realize without you saying anything that you like it and he will continue to do it. If you do bring it up, just keep it casual. If you can’t do that, then the next time he blesses you...tell him that you like when he blesses you and leave it at that. Link to comment
haruherohirahara Posted January 18, 2019 Share Posted January 18, 2019 Well I have certainly never heard of sneezes being induced by needling the spinal column o.o But aside from that...yeah, that's just kind of the thing when you sneeze a lot; I think some people just get sick of it and are like "yeah, she's gonna expect me to bless her like 8 times in a row? no thanks..." He could still just bless once, but I don't know; one blessing against 6 to 8 sneezes is bound to feel just a little useless There's this meme I saw years ago that reminds me of this sort of thing: "Don't expect a 'bless you' after the third sneeze. Get it under control." Link to comment
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