New Shaming Vid

[peach]

You know, they say "he who seeks finds". I don't know what's wrong with me that I was looking for more video reactions to the fetish, trying to prove to myself that's it's ok to be me. 

Nope, the fetish is still shamed and laughed at by the society 😊 aah, and I was so worried that people have suddenly become open-minded!.. Nah, nothing to worry about. 

Here you go, my curious dudes: 

 

I'll go and take more antidepressants now. 

Thanks. It was nice hanging out with you on YT. Bye. 

[Watercolor Daydreams]

You know, as upsetting as it is to be mocked, it's to be expected. Obviously this fetish doesn't feel weird to us because we've had it all our lives, but I can understand someone who's never heard of it before being weirded out by it. Though it doesn't give anyone excuses to mock anyone for their preferences, videos like this are just...part of the fetish package lol. Pretty much every fetish has been mocked or shamed somewhere on the internet. So I say live and let live, everyone is just different.

EDIT: Nobody will be able to ever prove to you that it's ok to be yourself. The only person who can prove that to yourself is you. To expect the internet to respect your feelings, identity, etc. is unrealistic, because there will always be people who disagree with your lifestyle. As someone who is also very insecure about the fetish, I get the need to receive validation from people, but you're never going to get it from everyone. Just remember that there's a lovely forum of people on here who get how you feel, so fuck the rest of the internet.

Edited April 14, 2019 by Watercolor Daydreams

[Steelswarm]

Ok, first of all, it is ok to be you. And this fetish is only a part of who you are, don't let it bring you down. I think most of us have one time or another had the feeling of not belonging because of the fetish, but thats why this forum exists right?

I think we as a fetish are mostly unknown to society in general, so like said before me, people that are completely ignorant of us and find us for the first time will probably show reactions like the ones in the video. Even if we have a less common fetish, I also think that there are way worse fetishes or sexual attractions for a person to have. Imagine having a fetish for poop or being sexually attracted to dead people. I'd choose my sneezing fetish anyday 😛

 And we also have a forum where we can find and talk to other people with similar aspects of the fetish. I think that is pretty cool, we should be thankful of having a regulated forum to do all of this. 

Hope these posts can help you "find peace with the fetish" haha 

[Elektra]

Peach, whoa, how do you FIND them?!! It's really incredible;)) You get exactly what you "need", as in what you really fear...

Okay, 1st, spiritual answer: "your being attracts your life". Dumb it down to "if you look for it you'll find it". So you believe it's shameful...that's ok too. Why not. Just experience that. Just a feeling, in the end.

( had this horrible dream the other day about having to stand in trial and justify myself for the fetish so I know:=)

2d : non spiritual answer  lol : I find this guy to be pretty funny, actually, I like the idea of the N.O.S.E squad to keep us STRAIGHT, of all things lol  (though I'm sorry he quoted you on this special topic, that makes him actually dumb), even though I wouldn't (didn't in fact) spend 20 min watching him. Stopped after 7 min. My partner always says : know where the person who speaks is coming from; as in : WHO THE HELL IS THIS GUY, WHO CAN'T EVEN SAY CHHINKNI?! LOL

Look at it this way : if he even tried to join, in *our community*, he'd be banned in a jiff;)

Now don't spend another MINUTE looking for things like that. Because you'll find them, trust me. And it won't change the bottom line : we get a kick out of it.

hugs

10 minutes ago, Steelswarm said:

Imagine having a fetish for poop or being sexually attracted to dead people

or vomiiiiiit !!

[peach]

Thank you. I'm reading all of your responses. Thank you. 

[•.*°•☆. Q .☆•°*.•]

honestly? this fetish is pretty weird!! but u kno what else? it's not hurting anyone! 

when you're an adult you're allowed to like, do, and get off on anything you want, anything you can imagine, as long as all parties are consenting adults. 

so sneezing fetish is weird. so? lots of stuff is weird but it's still good tho.

like listen like eating french fries with milkshake on them is considered pretty weird but it's still delicious tho

weird is fine! my advice honestly is embrace the weird stuff you like, and embrace how weird it is. just own it u kno? accepting yourself starts at not trying to be the standard version of "normal" or "perfect" or whatever

 

[thatguy02015]

The internet can be a dang disheartening place sometimes. Whether it's our fetish, or literally any other topic (i.e. politics, society, religion, sports, medicine, food, tv, etc.), you can be sure you'll find people doing their level best to disparage other people and their ideas. Viewing some social media is too often akin to delving into the gutters of society and I usually feel worse after seeing it. 

This fetish, though perhaps odd, certainly has it's perks and, like several have already mentioned, it could be stranger lol. In this community, you've shown yourself to be a lot braver than many of us by posting the videos that you do and sharing your honest thoughts/feelings in posts. You know what you like/are interested in and are strong enough to pursue it. I've only had the guts to make a few waves so far and find myself a little more nervous with each one. Anytime someone happens to comment that they like my voice, I am equal parts flattered and scared that they might somehow know me and are trying to trick me into saying more to recognize my voice (dumb I know). All that to say, I can't imagine the guts it takes to contribute the way you have. Thank you.

Whatever you do, please know many of us really appreciate your contributions. I hope that you continue to find ways to be a part of, and find enjoyment in, this community, in whatever manner you feel comfortable.

[mysterious sneeze man]

This video is 3 months old and has 500 views. Most peoples wav channel's get a lot more traffic lol. He's some nobody talking about things that don't affect him. 

[Paul]

Looking to non-fetish people on the internet to feel valid in our fetish is pretty futile. I will say that on the few occasions I have told real people I know about the fetish they've been very accepting. I think the listicles and videos about us are just to get a quick laugh; they don't hate us as people and aren't out to get us.

[Rhomberg Rabbit]

This bozo has way too much time on his hands

[Chiguy]

It sucks, but this fetish will never be normalized.

If you find someone who accepts it ... you’re lucky. Most people won’t. And for our younger members, I don’t suggest “outing” yourself. 

It’s why for those of us who pre-date the Internet and thought we were “the only one” - sites like this were so incredible. I remember how cool it was when I stumbled onto this with Yahoo. That dates me, too. 😂

 

Edited April 15, 2019 by Chiguy13
Better idea

[facet]

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Edited November 1, 2019 by facet
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[Show&tell]

How upsetting to see my husband's videos in this

[etechie]

2 hours ago, Show&tell said:

How upsetting to see my husband's videos in this

That sucks! I am sorry to hear that

[snuffle-bunny]

On 4/14/2019 at 10:18 PM, Watercolor Daydreams said:

Just remember that there's a lovely forum of people on here who get how you feel, so fuck the rest of the internet.

THIS. So much. Nothing else I can add.

[NoV]

Those of us that have been around in this community for a number of years have weathered many such 'shaming' incidents - you build up a thick skin to it after a while because the short-attention span of the gawping public soon turns elsewhere, the little diversion is forgotten and life on the forum goes on.

It is hard when an individual feels they have been singled out - posts of mine were once read out for comic effect on an internet based radio show - but at the end of the day, for the general public we are just like a travelling carnival - quick, easy distraction but quickly forgotten  

[peach]

@Watercolor Daydreams @Steelswarm @Elektra @•.*°•☆. Q .☆•°*.•  @thatguy02015 @immortaltech55 @Paul @Hizzoner duh Mare @Chiguy13 @facet @snuffle-bunny @NoV 

Thank you so much for your replies!!! Thank you for sharing your stories, thoughts and support! 💕 I guess it's just the process of growing thick skin to that kind of stuff. If I ever feel bad about myself again, I'll go here and read your replies. 

@Show&tell I'm so sorry you saw this because of my post here :(  You and your husband are the best!!! 

[doggo]

On 4/15/2019 at 1:10 AM, •.*°•☆. Q .☆•°*.• said:

weird is fine!

This pretty much sums up my sentiment. Weird is completely fine. At least you know your weirdness and can explore it - in sexuality things that's a huge bonus I think!

(I'm not going to watch that video, I don't want to hurt myself.)

[Pixieflower]

I just watched the video, and to be honest, I found it pretty funny! I think it’s understandable that people who find out about this fetish will be weirded out at first, since it’s pretty uncommon and for most people it’s hard to imagine finding sneezing attractive. But what the people making these “shaming” videos don’t realize is that it’s actually pretty nice to have a sneeze fetish! It’s convenient, non-dangerous, and it’s way less creepy than a lot of other fetishes. And the people making these videos most definitely have a weird fetish or interest of their own, so who are they to judge? Like a lot of the above people said, it’s completely fine to be weird, and it’s better to just embrace it!

[TheBowler]

I don't think I can say anything that hasn't said already in some form, but I wanna make at least one thing clear: It's always okay to be you. I think the key thing to remember is that just because we have the fetish too doesn't make us biased when we say it's okay to be who we are. We aren't biased, we just understand it. Society doesn't understand it, and I think it's wrong to seek validation from anyone, or any group of people that don't understand it.