I hate it

[2410Ar]

Someone who I know found my account here and I feel so bad about it. I don’t know what to do. It was the only place where I could be myself and now I’ve lost it too. I can’t use this forum anymore even though I would love too. It’s just so unfair. 

[•.*°•☆. Q .☆•°*.•]

or you could consider still using it and telling whoever it is not to perv on your sexy forum space

[2410Ar]

11 minutes ago, •.*°•☆. Q .☆•°*.• said:

or you could consider still using it and telling whoever it is not to perv on your sexy forum space

I know I could but what if this person will use this knowledge against me. I’m just so scared.

[Wilde]

Honestly I’d start by wondering why this person was here at all. We’re a pretty obscure little corner of the internet, and it took me a good decade of wondering what was up with the fact that I liked sneezing so much before actually finding this forum. 

I get that you’re worried though, I would probably be too if it were me. Are you afraid this person will use said knowledge against you because they have something against you/are vindictive/are generally not very nice? If not, talk to them about it maybe. Or, as Q suggested, just tell them to bugger off. 

[Reader]

Oh man, I’m sorry this happened to you. What kind of person is this? And what relationship do you have with them? 

Honestly, whether you leave or not, they can still use what you’ve posted already against you so you should stay. 

[•.*°•☆. Q .☆•°*.•]

right, like it's not like leaving is gonna make them UN-know, so like? just stick around and tell them to stop being a creep about your sex life

[Anonymouse]

5 hours ago, Arisamela said:

I know I could but what if this person will use this knowledge against me. I’m just so scared.

That would make them look pretty fucking creepy if they think they can "get back at you" for whatever it is they're upset about by telling other people about your private sexual interests? Imagine how unhinged someone would look messaging your parents or your job to tell them Arisamela reeeeally likes sneezing. Like, what would that accomplish besides making them look like the freakazoid.

[Pixieflower]

May I ask how they found your account on here? Like those above have said, it’s suspicious that they just so happened to be on this very unknown website, find your account, and know it was you. 

If the person uses the knowledge against you, you can always raise the question of how they found your account and why they care enough to tell other people about it. That might put them in hot water too. And like Anonymouse said, I think it would reflect way worse on the other person than you. 

I’m so sorry this happened to you and I hope everything works out. 

[Ali Marie]

2 hours ago, Pixieflower said:

May I ask how they found your account on here? Like those above have said, it’s suspicious that they just so happened to be on this very unknown website, find your account, and know it was you. 

That's what I wondering too--how they were even able to confirm that it was you in the first place. But I agree with what everyone has already stated, the fact that a non-fetishist found this place & was able to zero in on you specifically is an extremely suspicious coincidence.

Again, like as everyone else has already said...If this person were to try & use knowledge of your fetish against you, or to try out you...They should be more concerned about their own behaviors, rather than yours; because no well-adjusted person would do something like that. Spreading that information around would definitely make them look a lot weirder than it would make you look. Especially since this fetish is your own personal business & you aren't hurting anyone.

@Arisamela May I ask--if you don't mind--how they even went about confronting you with this? That just seems really immature & I personally can't imagine taking anyone seriously who acted like they could blackmail me with this & still come out smelling like a rose.

Edited June 20, 2019 by Alexandra Marie

[2410Ar]

1 hour ago, Pixieflower said:

May I ask how they found your account on here? Like those above have said, it’s suspicious that they just so happened to be on this very unknown website, find your account, and know it was you. 

If the person uses the knowledge against you, you can always raise the question of how they found your account and why they care enough to tell other people about it. That might put them in hot water too. And like Anonymouse said, I think it would reflect way worse on the other person than you. 

I’m so sorry this happened to you and I hope everything works out. 

The person who found it was stalking me on the internet and truly I have no idea how he realised it was me. But still, it freaks me out that he will show it to anyone else. He's not a bad guy but he likes me a lot and I don't feel the same way. That may be the reason why he was even looking.

[Wilde]

Okay so from what I gather this person has a crush on you, which is not mutual? If that’s the case, imo it’s extra super freaking creepy that they online stalked you enough to find you here. Also, your profile is pretty anonymous and you haven’t posted anything very personal or telling (from what I can see). I genuinely don’t know what I would do if I was in your situation, but I don’t think it’s worth leaving the forum. You shouldn’t be bullied out of your space by anyone. 

[2410Ar]

Thank you everyone for your supporting. I won’t leave this forum. I mean I’m a little stressed out about this whole situation but now I feel a lot better. It’s just one person. And still even if he tells anyone about it there is nothing that could let other people think it’s me.

[Reader]

8 hours ago, Arisamela said:

no idea how he realised it was me

Just have your sneeze fetish username be unique only to this forum. And for other websites you use, make unique usernames for those. No double dipping. 

And good job on not letting this guy take away something good from you! 😊

[facet]

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Edited November 1, 2019 by facet
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