sexysneezefest Posted April 29, 2020 Share Posted April 29, 2020 So I literally just had the most excruciating experience of my life. Like ever. Ever ever. And I can't stop shaking. So it's late at night and we're in the middle of some project deliveries for which a co-worker had access to my laptop screen through a screen sharing app. And then the work got over and some time passed, so I completely forgot about the whole TeamViewer thing and it turns out the FUCKING CREEP hadn't logged out of team viewer. And I opened YouTube to, well, enjoy after a fairly long day's work and about 10 minutes into... videos... the fucker calls to say "Btw, your TeamViewer's still logged in". I obviously abruptly cut the call and shut TeamViewer immediately. And I'm DYYYYYING. Like literally NO ONE knows about this fetish (for context I'm from India and people here aren't all that sexually open or liberal and I've NEVER spoken about this to anyone) and I'm completely spiralling right now. I don't know what to do. Like I obviously need a new job, right? Possibly career? Preferably planet to inhabit. I can't ever face anyone again. And I need someone to tell me this is not the end of the world. Has anything like this ever happened to anyone? Like I'm legit on the verge of a panic attack. HOW COULD THIS HAPPEN!? HOW THE FUCK DID I NOT CHECK TEAM VIEWER? THIS IS THE WORST THING TO EVER HAPPEN TO ME! Oh, and I'm clinically depressed, so when I still say this is the WORST thing to happen to me in my life, you know how bad it is. 😢 Link to comment
RinTinTin Posted April 30, 2020 Share Posted April 30, 2020 Hi SexySneezeFest, I am so sorry that this has happened to you, though I fully agree with what Rhinoceros said above, especially his second point. There's a lot of more OR less kinky fetishes out there and it's very unlikely that people will make a big fuss about yours. Imagine for instance you were to discover that your colleague had a thing for - say - shoes, or stockings, or leather clothes - I don't think it would be a big deal for you to know it right? I'm pretty sure nothing will follow from what happened tonight! Link to comment
sneezynyc1885 Posted April 30, 2020 Share Posted April 30, 2020 I'm so sorry about this! I'd be mortified too! It's natural to go to the worst case scenario .... I often calm myself down when I go there (on other things) by asking myself how likely it is that I would be ENTIRELY correct and that the worst case situation would actually come to be? I don't know, it gives me some comfort because my brain really gets stuff on these things. Also agree that there are FAR WORSE things out there ... and maybe your coworker just thought you were randomly listening to sneezing....? Still might have struck him as weird lol but he might not connect the dots! Lastly, even if he did, he would be a complete and TOTAL JERK to say anything .... it's definitely an uncomfortable situation and I totally feel for you! You've gotten some great advice so far here, though!!! Link to comment
•.*°•☆. Q .☆•°*.• Posted April 30, 2020 Share Posted April 30, 2020 OOF. Big sympathy, i really feel for you here. I actually had something similar happen to me one time, when i was at work and my boss wanted me to show him something on my phone. Well, the last thing that i'd had open on my phone was the forum. And he was looking over my shoulder when i unlocked it! soooooo we both spent the rest of my time employed there forcefully pretending that he didn't see SNEEZE FETISH FORUM on my phone that one time i hope all turns out well for you!! <333 Link to comment
NoV Posted April 30, 2020 Share Posted April 30, 2020 You are definitely not alone! I think that the majority of sneeze fetishists on here have had that moment where they forgot to close a tab, left a half-finished story on their desk, let someone borrow their phone with the last YouTube video still on screen... The important thing to remember is that we all came through it, and although it's pretty distressing at the time, its amazing how quickly other people forget, or just straight up don't care. Take care and try not to worry about it too much Link to comment
Roza Posted April 30, 2020 Share Posted April 30, 2020 sexysneezefest, my SINCEREST regards to you and a huge virtual hug if you let me, too I can SO TOTALLY feel your panic, and I would be exactly the same as you, had something like that happen to me. That said, it makes ALL THE DIFFERENCE if you look at it from a certain distance as the rest of us do. Everything that has been said above makes sense. I would especially vote for your colleague not realising what this is that you're watching, plus, how the h*ll can he spread this information without making him sound like a freak? Would you ever be able to share this kind of information about a coworker of yours with anyone? So, it all boils down to two very much relieving points, I think: 1. No-one else will have ANY sort of information about the incident apart from him and 2. not even he probably knows anything that concerns your sexual preferences. Please lift up your spirits, it is NOT the end of the world, or your career or your job, although it might feel like it, you may find it hard to forget about it but chances are he already has Link to comment
oOMariusOo Posted May 3, 2020 Share Posted May 3, 2020 @sexysneezefest Nothing says that what you were watching was sexual. And even if he saw what you were looking at, you can pretend that this is not what he thinks. For example, you can tell her that this is a video sent to you by a friend. Or you clicked on the wrong link and the video launched on its own. Unless the video you watched was called "SEXUAL Sneezing FETISH", I don't think you are likely to get criticism. When a person comes across a video he doesn't understand, he doesn't necessarily associate it with sex. So : 1) Either he did not even see the video in question. He would simply have seen the program open. 2) He did not make the link between video and eroticism. 3) If he saw the video and your colleague is a bad language, you just have to explain yourself with a pirouette. You are clearly saying that this is the link sent by a friend, but that you did not really understand why she sent you this. Generally, it works. In any case, I offer my sympathy to you., I hope that you will soon be relieved in relation to this situation. I am wholeheartedly with you ! Send us your news to tell us how it went next ? And if you allow me, I'm sending you a huge virtual hug too. Link to comment
sexysneezefest Posted May 6, 2020 Author Share Posted May 6, 2020 Thank you to EVERYONE here! ❤️ Yes, definitely helped me gain perspective. As with most nightmares, it didn't seem as scary in the morning He hasn't mentioned the incident since then and nor have I. Everyone else seems to be interacting pretty normally with me (as much as I can gauge on zoom calls). So I think everything should be smooth hereon. Thanks for all the virtual hugs as well. Link to comment
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