Cold fetish

[Dr. Anonymous]

Hello guys!

I have to ask you something. Could you help me understand, please?

If somebody has cold fetish, how can she cure herself?! 
While she doesn't wanna talk about it with nobody :(( 
Is it same with masturbation? 

[bloom]

a fetish forum filled with fetishists is probably not a good place to find out where you can get rid of a fetish because none of us have done that or else we wouldn't have posted here.

that being said! it's not possible to spontaneously get rid of a fetish. but you don't have to discuss it with anybody if you don't want to

[TheCakeIsAlive]

6 hours ago, Dr. Anonymous said:

Hello guys!

I have to ask you something. Could you help me understand, please?

If somebody has cold fetish, how can she cure herself?! 
While she doesn't wanna talk about it with nobody :(( 
Is it same with masturbation? 

I think a lot of people who end up here struggle or have struggled to some extent with their unusual "wiring". What I've learnt over the past decade or so is that a lot of people have some sort of kink. It's part of us. 

Yes, repression is an option, but - speaking from personal experience - I can't really recommend it. It doesn't make it go away, it tends to just lead to feeling more ashamed about it. There is an element of learnt behaviour sometimes which can be adjusted.

My best recommendation is to try to come to terms with it. There is the choice whether to indulge it or not, there doesn't really appear to be a choice whether to have it or not. 

[oOMariusOo]

@Dr. Anonymous
Hello Anonymous,
It is common for fetishists to experience certain apprehensions in relation to our attractions. One can easily feel excluded, especially when one lives for example in a family that is not very understanding. For a sneeze fetishist, living in a family that is very picky about hygiene and good manners can be very unsettling.

Or on the contrary, living in a family that will tend to sneeze without gene, this can make the sneeze fetishist very uncomfortable because it is something intimate that he does not wish to share with his parents. Nevertheless, he finds himself forced to bear it for all the years he will live with them. Believe me, I know what I'm talking about, I speak from experience. 

However, I consider my fetish as something magnificent. It's an integral part of my identity, it's who I am and thanks to that, I acquired a certain sensitivity that others don't have. Even though I lived excluded in solitude for many years, if there was the possibility for me to start all over again, to start my life over without this fetish, I wouldn't want it.

Sometimes when I see couples around me whose wife sneezes and her boyfriend instantly rejects because she has snot on her nose, I find it sad. In love, we are supposed to share tenderness, affection while overflowing with attention and compassion for the other. I have already witnessed couples kissing, cuddling in each other's arms. Until one of them sneezes, the other comes to push her away sometimes even fiercely or spitefully. So no, I don't want to be like that and I'm happy to be able to have this particular sensitivity. 

You should accept yourself as you are. It is neither a disease nor a curse, on the contrary, it is more of a blessing. It is a gift that allows you to have a more open, more sensitive view of the situations around you. If you are not convinced, try to spend a little more time on this forum, see how others experience it and accept themselves as they are. This may allow you to open up a little more to your fetishism.

I sincerely wish you to realize this. Always take good care of yourself and see you soon.
Marius 

[Dr. Anonymous]

4 hours ago, oOMariusOo said:

@Dr. Anonymous
Hello Anonymous,
It is common for fetishists to experience certain apprehensions in relation to our attractions. One can easily feel excluded, especially when one lives for example in a family that is not very understanding. For a sneeze fetishist, living in a family that is very picky about hygiene and good manners can be very unsettling.

Or on the contrary, living in a family that will tend to sneeze without gene, this can make the sneeze fetishist very uncomfortable because it is something intimate that he does not wish to share with his parents. Nevertheless, he finds himself forced to bear it for all the years he will live with them. Believe me, I know what I'm talking about, I speak from experience. 

However, I consider my fetish as something magnificent. It's an integral part of my identity, it's who I am and thanks to that, I acquired a certain sensitivity that others don't have. Even though I lived excluded in solitude for many years, if there was the possibility for me to start all over again, to start my life over without this fetish, I wouldn't want it.

Sometimes when I see couples around me whose wife sneezes and her boyfriend instantly rejects because she has snot on her nose, I find it sad. In love, we are supposed to share tenderness, affection while overflowing with attention and compassion for the other. I have already witnessed couples kissing, cuddling in each other's arms. Until one of them sneezes, the other comes to push her away sometimes even fiercely or spitefully. So no, I don't want to be like that and I'm happy to be able to have this particular sensitivity. 

You should accept yourself as you are. It is neither a disease nor a curse, on the contrary, it is more of a blessing. It is a gift that allows you to have a more open, more sensitive view of the situations around you. If you are not convinced, try to spend a little more time on this forum, see how others experience it and accept themselves as they are. This may allow you to open up a little more to your fetishism.

I sincerely wish you to realize this. Always take good care of yourself and see you soon.
Marius 

I wish i could talk to you more. can i ?! 

[oOMariusOo]

@Dr. Anonymous
Of course with pleasure. But to talk to each other in private, I think you need to have a certain number of participatory messages in the forum. If not, you can always send me a message by email, but I don't know if it appears on my profile. 

[Mems]

I’ve found the more that I become comfortable with my sexuality, the fetish, my body, and really my whole self, the less the fetish seems to have to control. I indulge the fetish at appropriate times and because of that it doesn’t pop up as much outside of those times. Does that make sense? I also find that the more I understand myself the more the fetish makes sense and the more authentically I’m living my life the more comfortable I am with it. It takes time to come to terms with yourself! A whole lifetime in fact! But it seems like you are starting to take the steps to get there ❤️