Conversations About Sneezing

[Fiadh]

I’m curious, if you have a significant other (or someone you’re into) do you ever try to bring up topics that would lead them to talk about sneezing? Or would you rather avoid the topic? (Assuming you haven’t already told them about the fetish).  Feel free to elaborate on why to either answer!

[Stormer235]

When I was younger and talking with friends, I would sometimes try to bring it up in conversation to hear how they felt or if they had any stories. Now that I know about the fetish, I'm too worried to bring it up out of nowhere, but I do often secretly hope it gets brought up by chance.

[Holdbacks]

Nah I won’t bring sneeze related topics from me

Though when it naturally happens, I would enjoy moments 

[peach2218]

When my husband mentions that he doesn’t feel good or thinks he’s getting sick, I’ll try and casually ask him what his symptoms are in hopes of starting up a convo. 
 

He doesn’t know about the fetish. I flip back and forth almost weekly with whether I want to tell him or just keep it to myself. We’ve been together for 8 years at this point

[rysosneezy]

14 minutes ago, peach2218 said:

When my husband mentions that he doesn’t feel good or thinks he’s getting sick, I’ll try and casually ask him what his symptoms are in hopes of starting up a convo. 
 

He doesn’t know about the fetish. I flip back and forth almost weekly with whether I want to tell him or just keep it to myself. We’ve been together for 8 years at this point

I hope you get the courage to tell him, and he accepts and indulges it.... my wife was very hesitant, but I'm glad she finally did... our sex life exploded after introducing sneezing into the bedroom   Stuff I can't say in the non-Adult sections haha

[oOMariusOo]

I don't dare talk too much about it with other people anymore, but I talked about it a little with my very first girlfriend. In fact, the conversation on the subject happened long before our first face-to-face meeting and she was the one who brought it up. I remember when I was younger, I had a skyblog page where I talked about my fetish and that's where some conversations started completely anonymously. It wasn't until long after that we ended up dating, but since we both had quite a difficult situation, we didn't get much chance to expand on the subject.

Years later, I met someone else with whom I wanted to talk about it. I started by beating around the bush a bit talking about fetishes of all kinds, but she was firmly opposed to all that so I didn't insist. Since then, I don't really dare talk about it openly. That said, I sometimes leave small clues in other banal conversations to observe everyone's reactions. 

[drsn]

Interesting. I have steered conversations with my partner to bring up sneezing in the past, mostly when she is experiencing allergies. Like asking her some questions and trying to get her to discuss in a caring way.

[jdoe99945]

My partner and I talk about sneezing in a joking way, like if someone sneezes they’ll look at me with a funny face to see how I’ll react (which I’m not offended by, I think it’s pretty funny). For the most part whenever we talk about sneezing it’s in a joking way but never disrespectful or dismissive. They definitely don’t have a problem with the fetish, but think it’s pretty funny that it exists (which is fair, tbh. I think it’s pretty funny too when I really think about it).

[NoV]

Used to find it incredibly difficult and was acutely embarrassed to talk about sneezing with everyone. Now I'm a bit older, I have somewhat mastered the poker face and can do it with a bit of confidence  I can still be caught unawares if someone starts talking about sneezing out of the blue!

[iojo]

I've tried but it always feels kinda weird you know. But like with enough time in between bringing it up I can try to talk about it without suspicion. But u gotta be sneaky with it lol

[mordaciousghost]

I always used to avoid talking about sneezing because I was embarrassed and I was sure it would be noticeable somehow that I was into it. I even have a very careful straight face for when people sneeze around me that I have practiced.

Now that my partner knows about it though, I feel a lot more comfortable and we have fun with this stuff.

[Spacesneezeman]

I generally don't have conversations about sneezing, although I do have the occasional bit of fun with my sneezy neighbour.

[Italiangirl]

I usually find it very difficult to talk about sneezing, colds and stuff like that. I even struggle to say these words out loud!

Btw, I noticed that when I speak English it's easier for me to say these words maybe because it's not my first language and so it's also a bit easier to bring it up for some reason.

So that's what I did like a month ago with a friend with whom I speak English (she doesn't speak my 1st language and I don't speak hers).

I found an excuse to talk about cold symptoms in a way that wouldn't make it sound suspicious.

Hearing her talk about sneezing and a runny nose was sooo hot!! It was also a bit embarrassing but I kept a straight face throughout so I think she didn't notice anything. 

[peach_princess]

On 3/11/2023 at 7:44 PM, rysosneezy said:

I hope you get the courage to tell him, and he accepts and indulges it.... my wife was very hesitant, but I'm glad she finally did... our sex life exploded after introducing sneezing into the bedroom   Stuff I can't say in the non-Adult sections haha

I second that. Eventually opened up to my bf after dating for two weeks, crying in the car, feeling like I couldn't keep it secret but was terrified of rejection at the same time... Sooo we're married now and it's like an inside joke between us + all the intimate moments, like me going "HAWWWT" every time he sneezes and him just chuckling at it it's a big part of my identity, and I'm super grateful that my hubby accepts it and keeps persuading me that I'm not weird for liking sneezes at all

[rysosneezy]

On 3/25/2023 at 10:59 PM, peach_princess said:

I second that. Eventually opened up to my bf after dating for two weeks, crying in the car, feeling like I couldn't keep it secret but was terrified of rejection at the same time... Sooo we're married now and it's like an inside joke between us + all the intimate moments, like me going "HAWWWT" every time he sneezes and him just chuckling at it it's a big part of my identity, and I'm super grateful that my hubby accepts it and keeps persuading me that I'm not weird for liking sneezes at all

That’s awesome!!! I’m so glad you two are able to enjoy the added “benefits” of sneezing now hehe

[RosieB]

I am the type of person who tends to keep to myself. So when I was with my previous partner I had no intention of telling her. Until one day when we were watching a movie she just straight up told me what she was into and asked what I liked. I felt pretty comfortable telling her after that given how blatantly open she was about her own wants.

[Leas]

I kind of felt like I had to the other day when I was getting my nails done. I kept sniffling cos hayfever was pretty bad this morning, and my mad overthinking thought I was being annoying AF - so I just said “you’ll have to excuse my sniffling, hayfever has been crazy today…” I’m sure I probably went bright red, but I felt so rude. My nail lady is lovely, and said don’t worry, and offered me a tissue - which I declined. I likely needed it, but I’m not that brave aha. 

[rysosneezy]

27 minutes ago, Leas said:

I kind of felt like I had to the other day when I was getting my nails done. I kept sniffling cos hayfever was pretty bad this morning, and my mad overthinking thought I was being annoying AF - so I just said “you’ll have to excuse my sniffling, hayfever has been crazy today…” I’m sure I probably went bright red, but I felt so rude. My nail lady is lovely, and said don’t worry, and offered me a tissue - which I declined. I likely needed it, but I’m not that brave aha. 

As strange as this may sound, a part of me wishes hayfever effected me more.... once in a while it does, but not as much as it seems like when I was younger.

But I'm glad your nail lady was understanding!

[Hankyrick]

I generally don't have conversations about sneezing whether I'm at work or at home