How to tell your partner?

[sneezzy_bec]

Have any one told there partner about how they really feel about sneezing. I want to tell my husband try and get him on board but how d you start that conversation off?

[snzmn2016]

Most men will be happy to find new ways to get their wife amorous, just don't draw it out too long, gl hun

[demon_destroyer7479]

Find a way to casually bring it up in conversation. Mention that it's something you enjoy and would love to try it out with him. Most of the time I find partner's are understanding and willing to try at least once

[SneezeFae]

So I told my boyfriend and he’s on board for most things. As stated before, I would just bring it up in conversation in a casual way. Don’t get too worried. I would be honest and clear as well.

[sneezzy_bec]

Thankyou , going to bring it up tomorrow x 

[SleepingPhlox]

Best of luck to you.  Communication is very important in a relationship, and it's important to be able to feel like you can voice your needs and be heard.  It's understandable to be nervous if this is something that is a very big part of you and if you haven't opened up about it before.  If you are nervous, I'd suggest communicating that to him clearly at the beginning so that he knows where you're coming from at the start.  Something like "I need to tell you something, it's not bad news, but I'm nervous about it, not because I don't trust you, but because I have never talked about it with anyone before, and it's very important to me." Then he knows how you are feeling, and why, and he can use that information to guide him through his own responses.

[sneezzy_bec]

8 minutes ago, SleepingPhlox said:

Best of luck to you.  Communication is very important in a relationship, and it's important to be able to feel like you can voice your needs and be heard.  It's understandable to be nervous if this is something that is a very big part of you and if you haven't opened up about it before.  If you are nervous, I'd suggest communicating that to him clearly at the beginning so that he knows where you're coming from at the start.  Something like "I need to tell you something, it's not bad news, but I'm nervous about it, not because I don't trust you, but because I have never talked about it with anyone before, and it's very important to me." Then he knows how you are feeling, and why, and he can use that information to guide him through his own responses.

Thabkyou so much x 

[snzmn2016]

Did you ever tell him, did it come out great? 

[peach2218]

Following! I still haven’t told my husband and I’m not sure if I want to. 

[DenverB]

My best advice would be not to tell! I know it seems like a good idea for various reasons, but it can end up creating alot of very awkward and embarrassing situations. I know from personal experience. 

[EveP]

I haven't told my husband and don't think I ever will. The only people who know my little secret are you here on the forum, and you don't know who I am - just the way I like it. :-)

[hilsbilly]

When I was sixteen I fell in love with a girl as sweet as could be

It only took a couplea days before she was rid of me

She swore that she would be all mine and love me 'til the end

but, when I whispered in her ear I lost another friend

 

[sneezzy_bec]

No i didn't I chickend out. Don't want to ruin what we have 

[NoV]

On 5/4/2023 at 3:06 PM, sneezzy_bec said:

Don't want to ruin what we have

I hear you. From reading through many topics on this subject on the forum, it really can go either way. For every "they were so understanding and accepting, and now frequently induce for me" there is equally as many "I told them and they freaked out, and now they never sneeze around me"

I have never told a partner and have always been very happy with my decision. I have never shared my fetish outside of this forum and a few other similarly minded sites  

[DenverB]

On 5/1/2023 at 4:34 AM, EveP said:

I haven't told my husband and don't think I ever will. The only people who know my little secret are you here on the forum, and you don't know who I am - just the way I like it. 🙂

I honestly think that's a very wise decision.