Shy about posting an obs about your SO?

[itchynose2]

Am i the only one on here who actually considers this kind of thing personal, ya know, between me and my gf?

Or do you lot think Im just being selfish?

Im not saying im not very confident (but i never am, at ANYTHING!!!), but she sneezed earlier, which was the first time I had heard her sneeze (she has only been my gf since Monday December 10th, for all of those reading in a few weeks/months time) (6 very rapid sneezes), but Im just not comfortable with posting the obs on here.

Does anyone else feel the same as me or am i a loner in this field or opinion?

[Lynne]

No, I agree, it's completely personal.

[Guest silverbirch]

Don't feel awkward! I would never ever post an obs of my bf on the net. For 2 main reasons:

1) his sneezes are personal and between us, shared secrets.

2) Posting an obs is almost like posting a picture of someone on a porn site without thier consent- morally wrong for me, (I'm not complaining to anyone who does post obs of thier S.Os. it's about what you feel comfortable with. The obs board would be poorer without them I guess )

Silver x

3) He's MINE dammit! I'm not sharing!

[Bondi]

I'm not saying that you should or shouldn't post the obs, but it is a personal thing, just like posting wavs or self-obs about yourself and its all about what you're comfortable with sharing on a public forum. If you're not comfortable for whatever reason with the idea of posting obs about your girlfirend then you shouldn't do it. On the one hand, its just an obs and we don't know who she is or what she looks like and the only information we have would be what you write in the observation so it wouldn't be the same thing as posting pictures, videos, or wavs without her consent, because you are simply recalling an incident that you witness and would thus be free to disclose, withhold, or alter whatever information you want. We're not getting a picture or anything; we're just getting a second-hand narrative of something that a forum member experienced We read the text and imagine in our heads what is going on based on what is being described. At least that's how I look at it. On the other hand, everyone decides their own level of comfort within this community, how far they want to go, how much about themselves and their lives they wish to reveal, and what they want to share and therefore if you're not comfortable sharing it, then you shouldn't share it.

[girl_in_love]

I agree, that's absolutely right, Bondi!

Love

~*Jillo*~

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[MissMercy]

As a person who did post obs about her SO...it all depends on how YOU feel and how THEY feel. I know that mine doesn't mind, in fact he rather...enjoys it. But he's odd.

Make sure you discuss it first, and good luck ^

[Prodigy]

Make sure you discuss it first, and good luck ^

I think that's the most important part. If your SO knows about the fetish, you should definitely discuss it first. After all, it could be a little creepy if you were on the other end, wanting to do some research about your loved one's fetish... you stumble across this forum, read some obs, and realize that one sounds AWFULLY familiar..