Guest rezeensy Posted March 8, 2008 Share Posted March 8, 2008 Okay here is the situation---My bf G is a great triple sneezer, however the guy who introduced us and is a good friend of G's and a cowoker of mine is a great sneezer also. The friend i will call N. N and I work in the same room and during certain seasons he can have repetative sneezing fits of ten or more sneezes. However I have noticed that I have stopped looking at him or try not to look at him during these fits (it is really hard not to watch and he is so wrapped up in the fit and such that goes with it he couldn't even notice me watching) but I think I don't watch because I feel like it"s cheating on G to enjoy his friends fits so much. (neither of them know about my fetish) Maybe I don't watch because I I might have a noticable "O" at work??? But seriously When is it cheating or do we as fetishest just get to enjoy the extracirricular events? Link to comment
Lynne Posted March 9, 2008 Share Posted March 9, 2008 There's nothing wrong with enjoying someone else's sneezing (heck, we all listen to wavs, don't we?)What I would consider cheating would be having someone else induce for you, telling that other person you get off on their sneezing, or getting together with other people (either online, phone or in person) for the purposes of discussing or indulging in fetish activity. To me, anyway, it's something to be shared with my SO. I'll still make wavs for Bondi's page once in a while, and if it naturally happens (that I sneeze, I mean) while I'm on the phone with a forum friend, I won't go "ZOMG MUST HANG UP!", but I try to keep my offline relationships with forum people NEUTRAL and NOT all about sneezing. Unfortunately, this has led me to dropping a lot of people I used to have a lot of fun chatting with, because they have one-track minds and can't get off the fetish stuff even just to have a simple conversation, but most of the people I talk to offline are fantastic friends I wouldn't give up for the world Link to comment
Vetinari Posted March 9, 2008 Share Posted March 9, 2008 I think watching (and enjoying) other sneezers is fine. Even inducing for someone else is something I probably wouldn't consider to be unfaithful. For me the line would only be crossed if you did something openly and physically sexual (including kissing and so on). Link to comment
And Beat Him When He Sneezes Posted March 9, 2008 Share Posted March 9, 2008 I'm with Vet. I consider sneezing sexy, of course, but not sexual, and believe fidelity is not broken by indulging in it. Link to comment
Sneesee Posted March 9, 2008 Share Posted March 9, 2008 Ahem, well, I am about to have a different view than what most people said on here, so watch out! Of course, this only rings true for my particular relationship with my husband. And I probably will shock a few of you, not that I really care what anyone else thinks of my marrige anyway. My husband and I are very open about a lot of things. He knows how important this fetish is to me, how huge it is in my life, and the many friendships I've made because of it. Therefore, he has let me indulge this with other people. Of course, this is normally only done with his knowledge. And he honestly isn't too nosey as to who/what/when/where. He doesn't really care to indulge me, unless it just so happens he feels one coming on. Meaning, he won't let me induce him, and he doesn't try to induce for me. So, he understands that enjoying someone else's sneezes, even if they are inducing for me, is like my form of pornography. He also knows I had a few favorite sneezers, and wasn't too upset even when I admitted to him that there was someone who not only had great sneezes, but that I also found attractive. He was not upset, nor jealous. But again, we are not your typical relationship. I don't think. But, for me, I think cheating would be going all the way with someone simply because of this fetish, and without the knowledge of your SO. But, to answer the original question, I don't think enjoying someone else's natural sneezes is cheating at all. I say, watch your friend, store the moment in your brain, and save it for later use. I've done that soooo many times, and it's great! I personally think it enhances things with my hubby. Do not feel bad for enjoying it. Okay? Link to comment
Guest rezeensy Posted March 17, 2008 Share Posted March 17, 2008 Sneesee I have been considering what you said and I often think about the porn side of sneeze fetish so to speak the only part is porn normally involves strangers. However I have still choosen to follow your advice and enjoy N as well. Since allergy season is starting I have had some opprotunities already. Thanks Link to comment
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