Guest thrutharinger Posted February 11, 2009 Share Posted February 11, 2009 Has anyone ever had someone expose your fetish to everyone after years of marriage? It's a real BITCH!!!!! Link to comment
chui Posted February 11, 2009 Share Posted February 11, 2009 wow... im sorry dude. that sucks. i'm sorry that happened to you. Link to comment
Lynne Posted February 11, 2009 Share Posted February 11, 2009 Well, it wasn't exposed to EVERYONE, but my husband did find out (not from me) after we'd been married for several years. It wasn't fun. Link to comment
Lalena Posted February 11, 2009 Share Posted February 11, 2009 Wow! That really sucks. How does something like that even come up among friends? I would feel so betrayed. Link to comment
Lynne Posted February 11, 2009 Share Posted February 11, 2009 Lalena, I would presume said spouse is no longer in good graces.... Link to comment
Guest The fear Posted February 12, 2009 Share Posted February 12, 2009 damn man what an ice queen Link to comment
Aceofblades Posted February 12, 2009 Share Posted February 12, 2009 No, but my fear of that has made me very jealously guarded of my fetish. Guess I just have some trust issues with regards to that, hope everything works(or worked) out well for you though. Link to comment
Guest thrutharinger Posted February 12, 2009 Share Posted February 12, 2009 Well, it wasn't exposed to EVERYONE, but my husband did find out (not from me) after we'd been married for several years. It wasn't fun.Lynne, did your husband eventually get into the fetish? My ex did.... Link to comment
Lynne Posted February 12, 2009 Share Posted February 12, 2009 errrr no. He didn't. He never mentioned it again. Still hasn't to this day. Link to comment
Demosthenes Posted February 14, 2009 Share Posted February 14, 2009 Well, it wasn't exposed to EVERYONE, but my husband did find out (not from me) after we'd been married for several years. It wasn't fun.Not from you? That's not cool. Link to comment
Lynne Posted February 15, 2009 Share Posted February 15, 2009 Nope, not from me.... we had separate computers, and he suspected I was fooling around on him, so he staked out my computer and had my history transferred over to his Link to comment
starpollen Posted February 15, 2009 Share Posted February 15, 2009 Nope, not from me.... we had separate computers, and he suspected I was fooling around on him, so he staked out my computer and had my history transferred over to his W.O.W. Talk about violation of privacy. Contrary to (perhaps) popular opinion, I believe that as long as you're not in breach of your marriage vows, your life is your own. What you do on your computer is your business. And anybody who STALKS you should be treated as such. I'm sorry, babe. That's complete bullshit. Link to comment
Lynne Posted February 15, 2009 Share Posted February 15, 2009 Yup, and that's exactly how I felt about it at the time. A few people here can probably remember the resulting fallout. My ex registered an account here, made a few snarky comments, and then we were talking about separating anyway, so he let it go. He doesn't mention it anymore (hasn't since a few months before we did actually separate), and it's possible he's forgotten, but I can never forget that he knows. Link to comment
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