My weird dream about the girl I like

[Squadilah]

There's a girl who I've loved since I was 12 and now I'm 16 and I've been thinking about her a lot recently since we no longer go to the same school. Skip to the next paragraph is you don't care about background. Me and her are both really quiet people and we've only talked to each other a few times ever and I didn't show enough interest in her. I think she's beautiful but she doesn't and nearly all boys I know seem to think she's ugly. She does have a big nose but I like that. I'm a handsome guy (not to sound like I'm bragging) and I'm clever and I could have had lots of girlfriends up until now but I haven't even kissed a girl because I'm so hopeless and quiet. About a year and a half ago, I wrote a list of some girls I would date in my Facebook description for no particular reason, not expecting anyone to read it. I then deleted it a few hours later. She was on my list. The next day I was at school and one of her friends who I know well was talking to her in the playground and she turned her head and grinned at me for what seemed like ages but was not more than 20 seconds. Over the next few weeks, I caught her staring at me and smiling at me lots of times but I didn't do anything because I was too shy. Also I sat down with a group of people including her and she watched me and sort of got me to stare up her skirt. I think on 2 or 3 occasions in this time period I heard her talking to her friends about going out with me but I was too shy and confused. Then I guess when I didn't show any interest she stopped all that stuff. She was still friendly to me after that and she caught me staring at her many times since then. When we had our celebration evening after exams were finally over in June this year (it was kind of like a prom) I saw her on the dance floor looking very nice in her dress with her make-up done properly. She was looking at me, smiling again with a certain posture like she wanted me to talk to her or dance with her but I was in a bad mood already and I had things to do so I left (I actually saw her as I was leaving). Now we are going to different sixth forms and I never see her. My only method of contacting her is via Facebook but I'm scared that if I try to become friends with her now it will just seem weird to her and I will ruin it for myself.

In my dream, I was talking to her on Facebook chat like we were friends and I jokingly asked her to marry me and she said yes. For some reason I had a big important thing to do and I had to go away for several months and she said that we would have our wedding as soon as I got back and her and her family and friends would organise it for me. I thought it was just a joke so I went along with it and left for that thing I had to do. Then it skipped to the future and I was on a bus coming back home and I saw a guy who I haven't seen for a long time in real life, got off and was handed groom clothing and told to hurry up. I asked why and the girl said it was my wedding today and I had to wear it. I changed into it and she escorted me to a large building (for some reason I didn't question that) and all my friends and family were there greeting my arrival and congratulating me. I had no idea what was going on and everyone kept telling me it was my wedding and I'd agreed to it. I asked my brother who I was marrying and he told me to go and see her for myself. I went and found her and it was the girl who I like wearing an elegant dress and suddenly I felt very nervous like I could faint any second because I felt like everyone had made a huge mistake but I couldn't protest against it because it was actually what I wanted. Then I went into the main part of the building where everyone was sitting down and I saw that they were all happy for me and my bride was happy but I had no idea what I was meant to do. My brother noticed that I seemed extremely confused so he took me and sat me down next to him and very briefly and concisely told me to go to the altar and go along with what the man says if I want to marry the girl and to tell him if I don't want to marry her and he would sort everything out. I said I would try to marry her, then I went to the altar, she arrived and I had to say a few things and the man said me and her were now married and we got to kiss. Then I stopped feeling confused about everything and I just hugged her and kissed her for a minute, then we left to go to her house and I woke up thinking for a few seconds that I'd actually married her.

I'm a huge fan of the Dragon Ball franchise and I'm sure this is roughly how Goku and Chichi get married which is the weirdest thing of all.

[sexyhankysneeze]

wow! thats a pretty cool dream

[smooshi]

Wow..........

You should really try to talk to her! I mean, if you're both quiet and shy, she probably won't make the first step.

I think you would make a cute couple.... *dreamy sigh*

[megacycle]

That is a very interesting dream.

I think you should definitely try and talk to her. Become her friend. I'm sure she won't think it is weird. From what you said above about how she was staring at you and smiling, I think she wanted you to say something because she was to shy to make the first move. Therefore she must have liked you to. And I agree with LocaLocaBoka, you would make a cute couple.

[lovelylovexoxo]

Try talking to her & befriend her see where it goes from there

[Squadilah]

okay I will try befriending her via facebook chat because I have no other medium to contact her by but I still think it seems a bit weird.

[AbigailAnarcki]

Yeah just talk to her, say hi on fb. Whats the worst that could happen. You wont know unless you try.