Oceanmountains Posted September 16, 2018 Share Posted September 16, 2018 When somebody sneezes multiple times in a row, how many sneezes do you bless? Every one? Only the first few? Only one or two? I personally usually only say it once. However, because of this I sometimes miss my chance with my husband. He has sneezing fits pretty often, so sometimes I don't bless the first sneeze because I think there will be more, but end up missing out on the opportunity to bless him when it just ends up being one sneeze. The opposite happens as well where I bless the first one, and then I'm not sure what to do with the rest of them. Should I be blessing all of his sneezes? There are definitely gaps in between each sneeze during his fits, so there are opportunities. He appreciates blessings and always thanks me, but I don't want to seem awkward or overly eager. I think the most times I ever blessed him in one session was three, and I loved it but felt embarrassed afterwards... Link to comment
ukrsneeze Posted September 16, 2018 Share Posted September 16, 2018 I would bless all sneezes saying "bless you"in different languages, and after all sayings I know end, I would stop Link to comment
•.*°•☆. Q .☆•°*.• Posted September 16, 2018 Share Posted September 16, 2018 (edited) omg, ok so what i do is i just? bless the first two, and then i bless the whole thing at the end, in most situations if you catch my drift. though if it's like, the person has sneezed & won't sneeze again until a minute later? i would bless each of them since it seems more stand-alone somehow? it comes down to personal preference tho! do what makes you happy, i'm 100% sure no one outside of us fetishists thinks so much about how they're being blessed Edited September 16, 2018 by •.*°•☆. Q .☆•°*.• typo Link to comment
Zwee Posted September 16, 2018 Share Posted September 16, 2018 I usually bless the first sneeze if there's a significant pause before any others. Then, like Q, I bless the whole thing at the end, and hope that it really is the end! If it isn't really the end, I may or may not say a third bless you, but usually don't. I feel like three blessings for one sneezing fit is a little excessive, but it definitely depends on the fit! Also, if there are other people around, I almost always stop at 2 bless yous because like... somebody else can take over. It takes the heat off of me for a while, I guess? (I never realized I had a strategy for blessing sneezing fits until now) Link to comment
Scarlet Fury Posted September 16, 2018 Share Posted September 16, 2018 Here's my suggestion. When it comes to your husband, who knows about your fetish, I would ask him what he thinks. If you enjoy blessing every sneeze, ask him if he would be okay with you doing that. Link to comment
•.*°•☆. Q .☆•°*.• Posted September 16, 2018 Share Posted September 16, 2018 20 minutes ago, Scarlet Fury said: Here's my suggestion. When it comes to your husband, who knows about your fetish, I would ask him what he thinks. If you enjoy blessing every sneeze, ask him if he would be okay with you doing that. also smart! Link to comment
beijoseternura Posted September 17, 2018 Share Posted September 17, 2018 If someone would only sneeze once I would always bless him or her. If he or she has to sneeze twice or several times I would bless the first sneeze and wait until the sneezes / sneeze fit is over and then bless a second time. And I would consider that it might be uncomfortable for him / her to sneeze often if someone else is present and would ask if I should leave them alone until he / she feels better. What I could suggest for you: if your husband knows about your fetish - you could tell him that you feel a bit insecure about it and ask him which solution he and you would be happy with? Link to comment
Oceanmountains Posted September 17, 2018 Author Share Posted September 17, 2018 Thank you so much for all the responses everyone, they are very helpful. Before I met my husband I wasn't blesser (I still only bless him) so I'm still just trying to figure out what's "normal". I'm not sure why I enjoy blessing him so much because I never liked blessing any of my exes (I did it out of obligation sometimes though, and it felt awkward and uncomfortable). I think it's because he is so appreciative and truly loves to be blessed, and his sneezes are just too adorable to ignore haha. That being said, I probably shouldn't worry too much about it. Thanks again! Link to comment
Luisa39 Posted October 4, 2018 Share Posted October 4, 2018 (edited) Three "bless you"'s is my limit in a fit. Fortunately, I don't seem to witness many fits longer than that! Edited October 4, 2018 by Luisa39 Link to comment
Pixieflower Posted October 4, 2018 Share Posted October 4, 2018 To be honest I always get kind of uncomfortable when someone I’m with has a sneezing fit because I’m unsure of how many times to bless them. Usually I just end up blessing every sneeze, even though it’s awkward and probably gets annoying to the sneezer after a while 😅 Link to comment
SneezyKateM Posted October 7, 2018 Share Posted October 7, 2018 I hate when people bless all my sneezes. I will only say it once to people. Link to comment
ZakuConvoy Posted October 8, 2018 Share Posted October 8, 2018 I usually try to wait a little bit to make sure they're done before I bless someone. Sometimes, I miss my mark though. I think about two "bless yous" per fit is my limit. Might depend on the person sneezing, though. Link to comment
•.*°•☆. Q .☆•°*.• Posted October 8, 2018 Share Posted October 8, 2018 (edited) topic-adjacent, but I think everyone's different, tho. If a woman blessed each one of my sneezes i think that would be hot, i love to be blessed. Edited October 9, 2018 by •.*°•☆. Q .☆•°*.• clarity Link to comment
-~-~-~- Posted October 9, 2018 Share Posted October 9, 2018 (edited) I’ll bless up to three if there are longish gaps between them. if they’re closer together I’ll wait for the first break of a couple seconds and then if it’s a fit I’ll say it again at the end. Edited October 9, 2018 by psychlone Link to comment
honkmaster Posted October 9, 2018 Share Posted October 9, 2018 I'll usually say bless you twice. Link to comment
Oceanmountains Posted October 9, 2018 Author Share Posted October 9, 2018 Wow thanks for all the responses! Link to comment
MzMental Posted October 12, 2018 Share Posted October 12, 2018 I usually watch the person to see if they look like they're going to sneeze again. If they sneeze more than twice, I'll say bless you to the first couple and then just wait until they're done to say it again. Unless I know they sneeze in fits, like my mother, then I just wait until they're done. Link to comment
Oceanmountains Posted October 15, 2018 Author Share Posted October 15, 2018 So... I never ended up bringing this topic up to my husband, but the other night he randomly mentioned that he'd love it if I blessed every sneeze. I guess that answers that😂 Link to comment
foreverajerseygirl Posted October 23, 2018 Share Posted October 23, 2018 For me it depends on the time between each sneeze. Rapid sneezes I’ll bless at the beginning and at the end. Big, juicy, hitching, all-encompassing sneezes? I feel like they each deserve their own blessing. Link to comment
Mf1611 Posted November 11, 2018 Share Posted November 11, 2018 I really think it matters on the person who is doing the blessing and the person sneezing. I find it would be quite repetitive to bless every sneeze. if there sneezes in a row i usually bless on the last one if they do more then one then try to bless at the last one they do. Link to comment
Nas Posted November 12, 2018 Share Posted November 12, 2018 (edited) One to a friend, either zero or one to a stranger, all of my bf's. Then I have a mental flowchart of when I'll say it to family or strangers. I really only like blessing my bf and he knows it's a big deal for me to say it, and I think he appreciates it. Most other times it's uncomfortable for me, or is absolutely mundane depending on the situation. Edited November 12, 2018 by Cecilia Link to comment
Kimberly Posted November 12, 2018 Share Posted November 12, 2018 40 minutes ago, Cecilia said: One to a friend, either zero or one to a stranger, all of my bf's. Then I have a mental flowchart of when I'll say it to family or strangers. I really only like blessing my bf and he knows it's a big deal for me to say it, and I think he appreciates it. Most other times it's uncomfortable for me, or is absolutely mundane depending on the situation. Okay, so I gotta say I normally don't bless people because it is way too awkward... and my awkwardness generally leads to other people being awkward as well... lol However, I did get comfortable (finally) blessing my husband. That took a lot to get rid of that block. Link to comment
ThePokeFan599 Posted November 13, 2018 Share Posted November 13, 2018 I will always bless the first 3, but I'll wait until the end if it ends up being a fit. Link to comment
HarleyQuinnSFF Posted November 15, 2018 Share Posted November 15, 2018 my husband, all them. anybody else 1-3 at most but usually just one IF they're lucky (I don't like blessing other people usually) Link to comment
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