what's your sexuality?

[SneezyPony]

despite being from a family of heterosexuals I'm pansexual. My family says "they're straight AF". I'm not sure if they're homophobic or not. My aunt is. Pansexuals exist...right? A lot of people pansexuality isn't real and that I'm a wannabe bisexual. Okay?... I'm proud of who I am. I don't really have friends on this forum.:0 I came out of a few months of inactivenessΠ. (My name is Skater)

Back on topiccccccccc I'm curious!what are your sexualities?

[truth]

I identify as pan as well - it's a real sexuality, don't let anybody try and tell you it isn't, what do they know?

I also switch from identifying as demisexual to gray-ace and yeah im confused but definitely pan.

[SneezyPony]

I identify as pan as well - it's a real sexuality, don't let anybody try and tell you it isn't, what do they know?

I also switch from identifying as demisexual to gray-ace and yeah im confused but definitely pan.

I don't find a lot of pans, usually bisexuals. I have tons of friends. It's just my small group of friends, we all have different sexualties. But yeah, people sending me text messages on Kik, and dms on Instagram telling me to kill myself because pans aren't real and I should stop using it as an excuse to be a whore....?

[truth]

I identify as pan as well - it's a real sexuality, don't let anybody try and tell you it isn't, what do they know?

I also switch from identifying as demisexual to gray-ace and yeah im confused but definitely pan.

I don't find a lot of pans, usually bisexuals. I have tons of friends. It's just my small group of friends, we all have different sexualties. But yeah, people sending me text messages on Kik, and dms on Instagram telling me to kill myself because pans aren't real and I should stop using it as an excuse to be a whore....

Ah man! I'm so sorry about that! Please don't take them seriously.

[Melody]

I identify as pan as well - it's a real sexuality, don't let anybody try and tell you it isn't, what do they know?

I also switch from identifying as demisexual to gray-ace and yeah im confused but definitely pan.

I don't find a lot of pans, usually bisexuals. I have tons of friends. It's just my small group of friends, we all have different sexualties. But yeah, people sending me text messages on Kik, and dms on Instagram telling me to kill myself because pans aren't real and I should stop using it as an excuse to be a whore....

That is very alarming to me. Please, please do not listen to ANYONE who puts you down for who you are. You are worth so much more than they are. Pansexuality is real, and don't let anyone tell you it isn't. It is YOUR life. You can choose what to be and you can choose what you want to identify with, and anyone who stands in the way of that is simply not worth a second thought. You should be proud of yourself for being you I hope you realize that.

[LapidotLover22]

Okay, those people telling you to kill yourself need to die themselves. That they think they have the right to even think that about anyone based on their sexuality... I'm sorry, I can't.

I totally believe in pansexuality. I know I'm definitely not one, however, since there's plenty of types of people I'm not attracted to, such as transvestites. NOT KNOCKING THEM, swear to god, might even be friends with them if I met some (never actually met one, as far as I know) who had similar interests as me and all that, I'm just not attracted to them. Although if I met a guy who I liked and later on I found out he was a transvestite, I can't imagine it would be a deal breaker. Might even be fun... Guess I have a tendency to judge books by their covers (metaphorically and literally).

I'm rambling.

Anyway, I'm definitely bi, but as for as long term relationships go, I prefer guys. I'm also xeno, since I'm totally in love with Optimus Prime (Prime and Bayverse) and I also think Megatron (mostly Prime, somewhat Animated) is super hot.

I guess I also have a thing for alphas.

[truth]

Okay, those people telling you to kill yourself need to die themselves. That they think they have the right to even think that about anyone based on their sexuality... I'm sorry, I can't.

I totally believe in pansexuality. I know I'm definitely not one, however, since there's plenty of types of people I'm not attracted to, such as transvestites. NOT KNOCKING THEM, swear to god, might even be friends with them if I met some (never actually met one, as far as I know) who had similar interests as me and all that, I'm just not attracted to them. Although if I met a guy who I liked and later on I found out he was a transvestite, I cant imagine it would be a deal breaker. Might even be fun...

I'm rambling.

Anyway, I'm definitely bi, but as far as long term relationships go, I prefer guys. I'm also xeno, since I'm totally in love with Optimus Prime (Prime and Bayverse) and I also think Megatron (mostly Prime, somewhat Animated) is super hot.

I guess I also have a thing for alphas.

(sorry I'm not able to selective quote) just a note that the term 'transvestite' is actually considered to be deragatory and you should probably steer clear of it

[ukrsneeze]

Hey!

I'm 16 so I'm not sure yet, but I just haven't found nothing attractive in girls, but in boys I have - It's sneezing .

I hope that I am bi, but.. As I've told to one guy who is much older here, he still hasn't found it, so I don't know.

And I hope that your family is not homophobic and everything will be ok

[Bungee]

I'm somewhere under the asexuality umbrella.

I am able to be sensually and ascetically attracted to someone (males). I am also ether sex repulsed or have sex anxiety sense I don't think I'd ever want to go past 3rd base with someone (and it would take a lot to even get there) but I can enjoy porn. In general I'm just not interested.

Grey parts are almost entirely connected to the fetish XD.

[murphy dee]

From what I understand of it, pansexual means you can potentially be attracted to ALL genders, and bisexual means you are attracted to your gender and another gender ("bi" meaning "two" and all, and there is definitely a spectrum of genders that aren't simply "male" and "female"). Someone correct me if I'm mucking that up, though. But yes, pansexuality is definitely a real thing. Many people just don't understand it.

Myself, I'm primarily straight. I can be sexually attracted to women, but it's a passing thing and I could never see myself actually having a romantic/sexual relationship with a woman.

[Evilduckling108]

I'm honestly not entirely sure what I am exactly. I thought I was bi, but then I realized I was pretty much just attracted to girls, but now that I learn more about it, I think I might fall under gray-asexual. I tend to call myself a lesbian because 1) it's easier to explain and 2) I can really only see myself in a relationship with another girl. It's all very fluid and confusing, but that's just what I prefer to label myself as.

And don't listen to those jerks! Pansexuality is a real and valid thing and if that's what you identify as, then be proud of yourself!

[Kit R.]

Straight. I explored in college. Definitely straight lol

[skater]

I think I'm either straight, asexual, or somewhere in between. I probably overthink this

[•.*°•☆. Q .☆•°*.•]

I'm a pan/aceflux. Give myself whiplash sometimes,

[Arty]

I'm straight but can say a woman is beautiful or whatever and not be sexual attracted to her. I believe in all sexual orientations and equal rights for them all.

#artyloveseveryone!

[SneezyPony]

I identify as pan as well - it's a real sexuality, don't let anybody try and tell you it isn't, what do they know?

I also switch from identifying as demisexual to gray-ace and yeah im confused but definitely pan.

I don't find a lot of pans, usually bisexuals. I have tons of friends. It's just my small group of friends, we all have different sexualties. But yeah, people sending me text messages on Kik, and dms on Instagram telling me to kill myself because pans aren't real and I should stop using it as an excuse to be a whore....

Ah man! I'm so sorry about that! Please don't take them seriously.

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Sometimes I do take them seriously, I'm kinda sensitive. Most of the time I try to ignore, it's just a constant issue. I AM REAL!!

[SneezyPony]

I'm straight but can say a woman is beautiful or whatever and not be sexual attracted to her. I believe in all sexual orientations and equal rights for them all.

#artyloveseveryone!

yay I'm glad you love everyone! As do I! I honestly didn't expect to get any replies. I do admit I hate it when people say being gay is a choice. It's like saying being born a female was a choice. It's something you have no control over. O

[smooshi]

Damn, look at all the pans. You hearts don't let anyone slut shame you for attraction regardless of gender, okay?

Me, though... I'd describe my sexuality with Janet Weiss' reaction when Frank asked her if she had any tattoos. In other words, I haven't got the faintest. I'm about 100% sure that I'm not monosexual, and like 80% sure that I'm aromantic. Pansexual aromantic would probably be the most accurate label, but I don't know how well it fits.

That's why I quite like the term "queer", even though it's quite problematic, especially with older homosexual community. It's like a short way of saying "not straight, definitely LGBT, just not sure about the label (yet)". I guess...

[Bondi]

Heterosexual here.

Also, SoulSong, the term transvestite means someone who likes to sometimes dress in clothing that society considers appropriate for the opposite sex but they are otherwise happy with the gender that was assigned to them at birth. They don't even like that term either, though. But in any case, it's not the same as being transgender.

[MaiMai]

Well, I'm not heterosexual. That's the only thing I know for definite.

I definitely identify as somewhere around the panromantic mark in terms of romantic orientation, but sexuality-wise I'm less certain, although I think I might identify as lesbian in that respect. Or maybe demisexual? I'm really not sure.

When people ask me, I just respond that I'm not straight.

[VoOs]

Bisexual homoromantic here. Or just "queer" for short. While I do find some men sexually attractive, I have a strong preference for women and I don't think I would ever want to be in a romantic relationship with a man.

[Snowydays]

hmm, I'm actually questioning things myself I'd think I'm gray demiromantic+sexual and pansexual, but I guess a quote I go by is "I don't fall in love with men or women, I fall in love with people."

I see myself marrying a male, but I'm open to anything else happening.

[Chanel_no5]

I'm very simple. I'm a female and I'm attracted to females. There really is nothing more to say about it.

[LapidotLover22]

Okay, those people telling you to kill yourself need to die themselves. That they think they have the right to even think that about anyone based on their sexuality... I'm sorry, I can't.

I totally believe in pansexuality. I know I'm definitely not one, however, since there's plenty of types of people I'm not attracted to, such as transvestites. NOT KNOCKING THEM, swear to god, might even be friends with them if I met some (never actually met one, as far as I know) who had similar interests as me and all that, I'm just not attracted to them. Although if I met a guy who I liked and later on I found out he was a transvestite, I cant imagine it would be a deal breaker. Might even be fun...

I'm rambling.

Anyway, I'm definitely bi, but as far as long term relationships go, I prefer guys. I'm also xeno, since I'm totally in love with Optimus Prime (Prime and Bayverse) and I also think Megatron (mostly Prime, somewhat Animated) is super hot.

I guess I also have a thing for alphas.

(sorry I'm not able to selective quote) just a note that the term 'transvestite' is actually considered to be deragatory and you should probably steer clear of it

Is it? Duly noted. So, should I say cross-dresser or is there a term I don't know about?

Heterosexual here.

Also, SoulSong, the term transvestite means someone who likes to sometimes dress in clothing that society considers appropriate for the opposite sex but they are otherwise happy with the gender that was assigned to them at birth. They don't even like that term either, though. But in any case, it's not the same as being transgender.

Oh, I know. I wasn't talking about transgenders (and I seriously don't know any other term to call them so please enlighten me, I don't like upsetting people). No... I'd really like to explain myself but I feel like anything I say will be offensive, so I'm just going to stop there.

[bloom]

I identify as queer or bisexual. Usually I stick to queer, for reasons I will detail below. I'm attracted to people both inside and out of the gender binary with a strong preference for feminine or androgynous people; attraction to men is much less common, with notable exceptions.

Anyway, I identify the way I do for several reasons. The label bisexual has historically always been inclusive of attraction to nonbinary genders (I'd like to link a masterpost of sources for this but it's on a microblogging site, so I can't!), but a lot of people seem to think identifying as bisexual is somehow transphobic or noninclusive, which is... really disgusting and flat-out wrong. The term pansexual could easily be applied to me but the pansexual community (not individuals who identify that way, the community itself) is so toxic that I steer well clear of the label. Basically I wish "bisexual" hadn't been tainted the way it has and I don't like that I feel forced to identify as "queer" because of it, but them's the breaks, I guess.

On 8/30/2015 at 11:53 AM, SoulSong22 said:

Is it? Duly noted. So, should I say cross-dresser or is there a term I don't know about?

If you're referring to people who dress in clothes made for the societally-deemed "opposite gender," cross-dresser is fine. The problem with your statement is that cross-dressers aren't a gender identity, they're just people who wear clothes not "meant" for them; they still identify with their assigned gender at birth. So attraction to them is irrelevant in a conversation about your sexuality - it's kind of like saying "I'm not attracted to women who wear dresses" or something.

On 8/30/2015 at 11:53 AM, SoulSong22 said:

(and I seriously don't know any other term to call them so please enlighten me, I don't like upsetting people)

Transgender people or trans people is good.

edit: IM AN IDIOT AND A LESBIAN